o.k. me and my best friedn both like this guy. weve both been cushing on him since 6th grade. and she trusted me 2 tell me something.......she rote a letter 2 him and sed he does like her bck but dsnt wanna go out with her but he will change his mind. now im hysterical crying and dont know what 2 do plz help me.....=[
2007-10-27 15:46:47 · 11 answers · asked by Italian girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know what to say...
listen, he might not even be the best guy in the world, sure he may be hot and all but maybe hes a real jerk. wait and see what happens to your friend.
anyways, let it go, be happy for your friend, i know you liked him too but think about it, there are many other guys out there, its hard to think but hey...relax about it
dont rush this stuff, love takes time, if its true love its there
2007-10-27 15:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by teendeviant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? Get over it. I know teenage heartbreak makes it seem like you'll never survive. But quite honestly, boys are very immature at that age, and they don't understand what a crush is, so forget about it. In 4 years, you're allowed to cry a little if you get dumped, but right now you should focus on having fun and doing well in school.
2007-10-27 15:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I believe we have here is two best friends who both like the same guy.The problem is that they both like a guy who is not worthy of their interest, love,or potential conflict.Even though he knows of her crush for him he rejected her though he did it smartly.He does not want to go out with her but he will change his mind.Sounds like a guy who can't make up his mind or a guy who wants to have his cake and eat it too. You do not need to cry over this guy, but be happy that you found out the type of guy he was before it was too late.A much nicer guy is on his way to you, one that will make you glad that you did not get together with this guy.You will be happy you did wait for your Mr Right.
2007-10-27 16:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? I don't think I understand you story completly but I will give it a shot. Boys are not worth a friendship a boy will like who he likes and there is not really anything you can do about it. Just let your friend have him and move on. Now if you see a pattern were every guy you like she likes I would definitly confront her. Oh and don't cry boys are not worth your tears. The person that knows what makes you cry will never make you cry remember that.
2007-10-27 15:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is just a "crush" and you're not too serious, then by all means flirt with this guy and see if he likes you! He needs to know you're interested. But if you really think this is serious, then, you better tell your (female) friend that this is a problem-that you like him too. You would need to work this out with her and decide on what would be fair to both of you.
2007-10-28 02:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by __ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y DONT U GUYS ALL 3 OF U GO OUT ON A DATE AND BY THE END OF THE NIGHT U SHOULD KNOW WHO HE LIKES MORE OR U CAN TAKE THE SIMPLER WAY OUT AN ASK HIM IF BOTH R BEAVERS WERE ON A PLATER WHOS WOULD U TASTE FIRST THEN BAM CAN GET NO CLEAR THAN THAT
2007-10-27 15:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by crikket04 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's what happens when you both like the same guy, someone gets hurt, every time, either both of you (because he doesn't like either), or one of you because he doesn't like the other. She wins, try to be happy for her and remember there are more fish in the sea.
2007-10-27 15:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that she has made a move you can't go after him now it will hurt her give it some time because it sounds like he likes you because he did turn her down and if you tell him how you feel maybe he won't change his mind.
2007-10-27 16:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by divainauthority 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard for u, and u dont have to be happy for ur friend but u have to try and slap on a smile whenever u see her, and understand that guys come and go like seasons. but ur friendship.. u have to try and make it last, because thats what really matters. i know because something similar happen to my cousin ( in law) and i. my freind was hooking up my cousin with her bf's cousin, and they got into this little fight, and he asked to talk to me, by the end of the day, he told my friend that he liked me, and when my cousin went to ask him out he said "no" because he liked me. i felt horrible because she really liked this guy, but i didnt go out with him i felt too bad. but our friendship ( cousin/ friend) was more important than some guy. so try not be too down, right now u need to be there for her, for when he breaks up with her, ( because its gonna happen).
2007-10-30 10:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to the guy, tell your friend your talking to him about her so she doesnt suspect anything and then start flirting with him. since your spending alot of time talking to him you too should become closer and he should start liking you. when your friend finds out he likes you just say you cant believe it and that your sorry and start to comfort her that way she will be happy for you and support u because u helped her when she was sad
good luck!
2007-10-27 16:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋