How can you tell if his heart is in it ?
2007-10-27 14:52:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its more than how he treats you afterward, though that is part of it. If a man is really making love to his woman he will indeed be slower, gentler, ask if she is ok. Do the whole soft tender kisses and indeed be facing her so he can look into her eyes. And when you climax together or you before him, he will still pull you into a nice tender cuddling hug and smell your hair and your neck and tell you how amazing it was. I know it may sound cliche for some. But for a dude that really cares for you, he is going to enjoy having your skin and touch very next to his heart, during the act and after.
The way to tell the guy is just having sex with you is if he only wants to get it on in positions where he doesn't have to look at your face or eyes. Pretty much doggie style is the top just getting some position. It also helps the guy climax much faster as well as the chick, so he can release and pull his clothes back on and be out. He may not even offer to call you the next day after it happened. And that is how you can tell the difference.
P.S. Looking into one's eyes is the most intimate act that can ever be performed on earth. Its even more powerful than having sex or making love combined. Because to look into one's eyes means you are looking into their soul, which is a very personal and private part of every person on earth.
2007-10-27 15:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Charmed
This is one of the hardest real life ones i have come across. There is a big difference between sex and making love. Sex can be with anyone, no mental attachment or feelings involved just want to have sex. making love is and can be wonderful, the two of you are attached mentally and emotionally. You share feelings deep in youre hearts and minds. Then when the time is right you share youre feelings in the art of making love..Wich can and will be allot of pleasure. You will share phyically what you already feel mentally and try every position and taste of eachother as possiable. There will slow times and fast times you on top times and all sorts of sharing. Thats the biggest difference between then you are sharing the feelings you both have mentally ,phyically.
2007-10-27 22:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by ho8er2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart and mind should be able to answer this question for you, how do you feel.
ohsohot
you are very wrong, we can tell when a woman is not into it and that is a real big turn off to most men and I did say men not boy's
2007-10-27 21:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by ULTRA150 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, a man's heart is never into having sex.
the only way to tell is his passion. regardless if you're the reason, or if that's just his style.
you could have sex with someone who's just a passionate, affectionate person. vice versa.
i would say, it depends on what label you 2 have.
2007-10-27 21:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by ohsohot 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's called woman's intuition :)
You can just tell. But sometimes no one can tell if someone's pretending or not... It's just the way it goes;making love can be rare these days...
2007-10-27 21:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by paul_w810i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he is does afterwards.
If he he gives sweet talks and cuddles or whatever he actually loves you.
If he just goes to bed or leaves without saying much then you're out of luck.
2007-10-27 21:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Justin B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well thats actually up to personal interpretation.......because only you would be able to tell........my husband usually just has sex and thats okay with me because I know my husband loves me because he proves it day in and day out with every thing else he does.......so id have to say if he looks into your eyes and takes his time and makes sure your "Good" then he's prolly making love.....if he just goes to town and doesnt realize your there lol he's prolly having sex.
2007-10-27 21:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've obviously never met Wayne, the love Master!!
2007-10-27 21:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u knoe b4 u had sex, if he says he loves u n u really feels that he does mean it, u knoe he doing love 2 u, but if u dunt have connection without doing sex, u knoe he aint feeling nuthing 4 u
2007-10-27 22:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by feito lindo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the guy says sweet things while doing it, he loves you..
But when he doesn't say anything except ooohhhs and aaahhhs...don't think its love...
After your done having sex, when he tries to hug you and kiss you and say that i love you so much, he loves you and no doubt about it....
2007-10-27 22:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋