i really liked this guy at first. and i only knew him for three days. than on the third day he asked me out. and in the first week of dating he told me he loved me. i didnt really believe it cause he never sayd anything about the inside he just sayd i was hott and cute. than after the second week of dating the feelings for him went away, than at a football game i hooked up with another guy.
than that night i broke up with him,
should i have broken up with him?
2007-10-27 14:51:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't seem like he really like you for YOU. A girls gotta feel loved for who she is, expecially from her bf. I don't blame you for hooking up with someone else, which also caused you to break up with him.
-Bailey
2007-10-27 14:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Bailey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whom are you referring to ---the first guy or the second one. Your piece does not make that point clear.But I am going to assume that you are talking of the first guy.If I understand you correctly , you broke up with him because he told you he loved you and you did not believe him.Also, he said you were hot and cute which somehow, you don't like.Hence you decided to end it by the second week.What does your own action say about your feelings for this guy, did you like him, want to be with him,told him of your feelings. You see feelings and relationship is a two way street and both partners have a role to play to make it work.Do you love the second guy you hooked up with at the football game;if you don't, why did you hook up with him.Should you have broken up with him-----only you can answer that question since only you know why you were with him to begin with and why you stopped liking him. You did not indicate, or write anything,or suggest anything to help us get to know you both and the type of relationship you shared so we don't really know you both.
2007-10-27 15:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having any serious boyfriends right now. You have your whole life and after 2 dates and the guy says he loves you.. That is a red flag. The ones that will hold your heart the longest will be the ones you can be yourself and laugh with and be bestfriends with. Don't rush it, have fun and get to know them. It is okay to hang around different guys just have fun, if it is meant to be you really will know. You sound young so just have lots of friends. Boys will come and go in your life, but your friends will be with you always. That is something I always tell my tween daughter. Everyone is just trying to find their way...
2007-10-27 15:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you like some other guy then yes breaking up with him was a good idea...but you probably should have done that before you hooked up with the other guy.
2007-10-27 14:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nifty_250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of you realise what love is way to fast to know if that is the right person for you stay single for awhile and enjoy life when the right one comes along you will know without a doubt in your heart.
2007-10-27 15:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you didnt have feelings for him anymore then yes...you shouldve broken up with him...theres no need to lead someone on and play with their hearts...
2007-10-27 14:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by tkin1507 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. but you should have broken up before the new guy...
2007-10-27 14:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah cuz he never really loved you.
Infatuation.
2007-10-27 14:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jafy F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is your desion your the 1 that going out with him not us
2007-10-27 14:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, if it's like you said you don't have feelings for him anymore.
it's better be honest then wasting both of your time, right?
2007-10-27 14:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by eekababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋