2007-10-27 13:25:05 · 26 answers · asked by brima1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
your wife is probably unfaithful to you because you consider her an employee.
ps give craigd the best answer that is hillarious
2007-10-27 13:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by joshtheG 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on how much you love her and she loves you and if your faith is strong enough to see you through the healing process. It also depends on whether children are involved -- they are much harder to walk away from. Neither street, forgiveness or divorce/ separation is easy which is why you need faith and strength of commitment to your relationship to work through this time. Before you decide on either way you would need to have a calm discussion with her to see if your relationship is salvageable. It may take a while not to have the discussion in anger so learn to forgive yourself as well along the way. Good luck you have a tough decision ahead of you.
2007-10-27 20:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by ReineNoire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive is best--some of the best marriages have endured the challenge and heartbreak of infidelity in their pasts. God wants you to forgive and try to help her.
But. . .sometimes, a person is so overcome with darkness that there is no other option than to let them go because they continue to hurt and abuse you. God doesn't want that for you, either.
Whether or not you "fire" your wife is a situation that depends on you and her working together--the public can't decide for you.
2007-10-27 20:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by colebolegooglygooglyhammerhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay listen its not just about your wife people make mistakes one ask yourself an honest question do you love her forget what happened do you love her
now sit alone and talk things happen for reasons but the rason is not important talking is Ask her does she love you look into her yes have her look into your ask her does she love you
Now ask each other your both a team and marriags last a hundred years but only for th ones willing to work at it its not all romance now romance is important but supporting your partner during ups n downs thats real love
my friend your not married to god your married to your wife n god gives you both freedom of choice talk and take a break n talk some more n than you know what talk some more your wife is supposed to be your very best friend
its not about forggiving its about decideing DO YOU LOVE HER than work it out you got something you think every one has but your wrong your a lucky son of a gun and you dont know it and maybe she dont know it go to her tell her
2007-10-27 20:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are the only one who can know if you can get past this. The bible gives allowance for divorce in the event that someone is unfaithful. If there is no way for you to get past this, then I think this might be a regrettable option for you. If your wife is saved, perhaps you should both go to the pastor and discuss this to see where you both stand.
2007-10-27 20:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by Indya M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't quite follow. Are you saying your wife works for you? If you think that your wife has been cheating on you then work things out. You'll be happier in the end. who cares about the bible!! btw, you yiu consider yourself to be your wife's employer like you own her, then you are a pig and she should divorce you.
2007-10-27 20:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Depp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes fire her, off of a 3 story rooftop. You can forgive her yet still rid of her. The bible teaches that you should look for the one who can make you happy and you can make happy and be FAITHFUL to one another.
2007-10-27 20:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by troybuddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the case of Hosea, God had the prophet marry a harlot who acted out her nature and God told Hosea to take her back
and show her mercy... it is what He does to us
God said in Malichi "I hate divorse:
no one would blame you for doing either way... but if you can I would try to forgive her Trust is based on the past behaviour and she will have to earn your trust and one way to start is going to a marriage councelor together
2007-10-27 20:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by whirlingmerc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer this question.
Has she said sorry please forgive me?
Can you forgive her? Sometimes it is not possible to forget and if you can't...cut her loose now.
Did you contribute to the situation in any way?
Do you want to forgive her or do you want to stick around and make her pay?
What motivates you? Do you want to make the marriage work?
You need to have a good think about it all and do what is best for you.
2007-10-27 20:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get rid of the trash in your life. You live better without those things happening. I don't read the bible but i think we're all on the same page when it comes to living your life as best and as happy as you can. When you're content with your life, it's easier to help others.
2007-10-27 20:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by CDM 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"fire" as in divorce? or "fire" as in she works for you so you will terminate her employment? anywho, the Bible says forgiveness is divine or something like that and other stuff like "judge not, lest ye be judged" and turn the other cheek. whatever.
2007-10-27 20:39:24 · answer #11 · answered by magichorselover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋