Do strippers kiss the man who is about to get married? Does more happen besides just an innocent dance???
2007-10-27 13:01:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It depends on the man and the strippers, and if it is in a strip club it depends on the laws in that area and the policies of the club. I've never seen strippers kiss a guy except maybe on the cheek, usually just lap dances. The parties I've been to were innocent, but this cannot be guaranteed. At the very most he might get to grab their a.s.s. and chest, but usually this isn't allowed. If your future husband is a faithful and honorable man, you have nothing to worry about because he won't do anything he shouldn't do. Plus, if he was going to have sex it is less likely that he'd do it at the bachelor party because there would be a lot of witnesses, even if everyone is supposed to keep quiet.
2007-10-27 17:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Alan S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That wouldn't be an innocent dance at the kind of party you seem to be describing. A number of things could happen from just sitting around watching football to hiring a stripper and more going on with her. I personally think bachelorette and bachelor parties are wrong. A lot of people think that people need one more night to enjoy singlehood but they've actually made a commitment to marry this person and are in effect cheating whether it's visually, physically, emotionally or mentally.
2007-10-27 13:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rockit 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the bachelor and who will be at their bachelor party for example if the brides brother or close relative whom of course wants the best for his sister,etc will attend the party the bachelor may be well behaved. Strippers are freaks and their nasty they don't care that a man is getting married they just want $$$$ they will kiss the bachelor and do even more as much as he lets her!!
2007-10-27 13:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband walked out on his party. No kidding.
The stripper was ugly, he showed me her business card.
She had tattooes, big fake bazoombas, bleached hair.
Anyway it started when he told his buddies, no strippers and they thought he was kidding. The first thing she did was climb up on the dining room table of his buddies place and kicked all the poker chips to the floor.
He claims to have been ahead two hundred dollars which - never mess with a man's poker chips when they are winning.
Then she wanted to know who the groom-to-be was and he pointed to the best man.
Well, it landslides from there, but it ended when they put him on the hot seat and called her over for the "lapdance".
He pulled 20 dollars out of his wallet and threw it at her at told her there would be 20 more in it if she would just leave him alone.
She called him a name I will not type down and he made a remark back to her and told the guys - later!
But I had heard that my dad paid her 40 for a "favor" in the bathroom after he left.
Anyway, he walked into the middle of my shower about the time I was opening my presents and lucky me I got a lot of new sexy teddys.
So I lapdanced him later in my new teddy.
I gave him the best bahelor party ever.
2007-10-27 15:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by rulestheroostwithkindness 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends. There are women that are there strictly to dance and strip. No more, no less. A guy might be able to find one (not your fiance, friends always plan bachelor parties) that will have sex or perform other sex acts on someone for more money. Usually, it's just the girl dancing, guys drinking and that's it. Relatively harmless.
Regards,
Brandon
2007-10-27 13:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The point of a bachelor party is not so that the husband to be can have sex with a random chick. My husband's bachelor party was at the golf course, and no strippers were involved. I know a guy who's party was at the bowling alley, also with no strippers. It sounds to me like you're concerned your man will be cheating on you, and if you're getting married, there's a serious trust issue to be resolved first.
2007-10-27 13:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
It's just a celebration of a man's final day(s) as a single man before he gets married. Most people seldom really get strippers since it's considered tasteless and tacky. Most guys get together and go shoot pool or have drinks together(in moderation of course) and just have fun with the guys celebrating their friend's last day as a single man and shooting the breeze.
2007-10-27 18:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends entirely on the bachelor party and the strippers.
2007-10-27 13:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Crypt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who comes to the party as your stripper!!! It is FUN- you will have a blast!!1
2007-10-27 13:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by PARTYLITE C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the man and what he and the stripper allow to happen. Most strippers are there to get their money, do their dance and leave. There are very few who are actually hookers.
2007-10-27 13:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋