Recently a club im in got together with another club on campus and had a bowling night. I was chatting it up with this guy from the other club. He was realy nice and cute. The music as realy loud so he got realy close to talk to me maaybe to close? He was so close that I had to turn my head other wise i was stareing up his nose a inch away when he talked. Anyways as the night ended some very drunk member of my club who are almost like family figured out I was interested in this guy and decided to try and fix thing up. 5 of them surrounded him and and IM not realy sure what was said. I was over in another area trying to live down my embarriment because I as unable to stop the drunken hord from advanceing on the guy. Im very shy and I had a slight panic attack when i realized what they were doing Next thing I know the guy comes up and says "yea id like to hang out sometime how about at the next co-club event ." Do you guys think he was interested or was he just being nice?
2007-10-27 10:34:57 · 6 answers · asked by magnetic__reversal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he was interested until your friends scared the crap out of him.
2007-10-27 10:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by DW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Magnetic,
First things first, was this guy drinking at all? If he was than he was probably acting in response to what ever was said by your close friends. If not than maybe he does like you, and wants to get to know you better. Remember, he asked you to Hang-out with him at the next co-club event, he did not in anyway ask you out on a date. Make sure you understand that difference so you don't end up getting hurt in the end. Us girls tend to read things that are not really there. Play it safe and see what comes out of this hanging out at the next co-club event. Plan your steps accordingly, you don't want to come across as being cheap and ever-ready. That's my advise. The rest is up to you.
2007-10-27 17:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Simbha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is interested in you. next time you talk to him, turn your back to him slightly, and speak softer. if he leans in again like he did before, then you have your answer. he is interested. the next thing is to get him to ask you out. during your conversation with him, say things like;
have you tried that deli at 5th and speedway?
i wish i had something to do this weekend, dealing with my little brothers friends can be a pain.
i wish i had the time to check out that new comedy at the fox theater.
he might not ask you out right away, but if he is interested, he will ask you out. by the way, dont give him your phone number until he asks.
2007-10-27 17:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by richard b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was intrested from the start and just didn't want to sound to desperate I think you should just go with the flow and see what happens even if he's not intrested you can still be friends there's nothing wrong with that.
Good Luck
2007-10-27 17:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds interested, but hey even if he was feeling obligated to ask you out, why waste it? take the chance to show him who you are - really shine! what have you got to lose?
2007-10-27 17:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by sunonleaves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is every girl on here shy? Actually nevermind this is the internet. ... I mean I dunno, he was sort of under duress when he asked you to hangout.
2007-10-27 17:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋