what do u do if u are to scared to go on a date with a boy?

Question

what should i do?
i have been asked out but always came up with stupid excuses! so help me out please!

Answer 1

One must confront one's fears in order to overcome them.

But more to the point, maybe set up a double date with a girlfriend so you've got automatic backup support.

Answer 2

Well...
I'd first ask you what about going on a date scares you. A first date should be no more than an opportunity to meet, talk, and have some fun together. Just like any regular time going out with friends. Nothing to fear.
That being said, if dating is something that causes discomfort, then just don't go! After all dating is merely a present societal practise, that is completely voluntary and dependent on the people doing it.
The bottom line is, date only if you want to. And if someone asking you out causes discomfort, leave it be. After all, the right guy will figure out how to date you without causing any undue stress and you would probably like him more for it.
Hope this helps... have fun!

Answer 3

If you don't think your ready, that's fine. You will be one day. Right now, you probably don't want to get teased because you don't want to go on a date. Truthfully, I don't know what to do for that. Get involved in LOTS of things that you enjoy. That way, you don't have a stupid ex use. Your busy! You also shouldn't be ashamed of it. I have A TON of guy-friends. Their just like girl friends, except i find there even MORE fun to hang with. SO DONT BE SCARED. IT WILL ALL BE OKAY. A PRETTY GIRL LIKE YOU WILL BE GOOD FOR DATING ONE DAY. AND THATS ALL THAT MATTERS.

(hopefully this helped, im not much of an advice person, but take it form someone with the same problem.)

Answer 4

What is it you are scared of exactly... or is it just nerves? Everyone gets that sweetness.. if you guys get on just think of it as a friend nothing more and always take control remember confidence is the most sexy thing about a girl. Also he is most probably just as nervous as you.

Once you have figured out what you are scared of try and run through the situation in your head or talk about it with your friends. Have a giggle about you possibly tipping up stairs or even forgetting your own name... this way you have faced it all already :D

Answer 5

Try and make it a group date. Each of you bring a friend or two, that way, you've got some back up if things get awkward. Plus, people usually act more like themselves when they're around their friends. You should just take a chance. Obviously if you're being asked out that means they're interested in you.

Answer 6

Thank you for asking. Getting to know someone in order to find out how comfortable you may or may not feel about him or her does not necessarily require a formal date. Spending innocent time together on mutual grounds such as on school campus or perhaps the library does not necessarily have to constitute a “date”. You may want to consider exchanging phone numbers in order to get to know him better? When you know him well enough as a person and happen to like him well enough then accepting his invitation to go on a formal date will come natural. Again, thank you for asking. Tsark out.

Answer 7

a boy is just a normal human being there is nothing for u 2 be scared of. tell him that u would like 2 go and that u have 2 be back home an hour later so u'll get the sense of it.

Answer 8

try a date see what its like before you make up the stupid excuse if your nervous have a friend come over and comfort you before your big night


hope it helped a little : )

Answer 9

I would just tell the boy that you are not ready to date and that you would rather just be friends and hang out together instead. Because, then you will get to know know him better and know whether he really is a boy you like. And, he will also get to know you better and know whether he actually likes you or not. If y'all do actually like each other after y'all both get to know each other, then it will work out better this way because then y'all will probably be more relaxed when you two are together and you will know each other a little bit better. Plus, y'all will both learn what each others personality is like and their lifestyles and y'all will be able to make things work out so that y'all relationships stay together and are not broken.

Answer 10

Well, you might think this is too intimate for a first date (you seem a little shy), but you might just tell the guy. Just say, "You know...I'm kind of nerveous about dates, so go easy on me, okay?" Also, ask your friends for tips about their first dates and how they overcame being nerveous. Every girl is nerveous about her first date, its completely natural, and most girls will have stories to tell about how it went fine and what they did.