What does a guy want most when having sex for the 1st time i mean what can i do to make it most enjoyable..
what positon, setting, etc would u recommend?
also if u could tell me about your 1st time and what you liked and didn't like so i'll know what to do and what not to do!
thanks!
2007-10-27 07:54:00 · 7 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps- we're both virgins
2007-10-27 07:54:26 · update #1
If it's his first time don't worry about it , you don't have to do anything special , believe me he will NEVER forget you..
2007-10-27 07:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't get pregnant.
If you cannot follow Rule 1, or are unsure of how to do so, conduct more research until you are certain that you can follow Rule 1.
Other than that... if either (or both!) of you don't think you're ready to Do It (remember Rule 1!!!) yet -- don't. Relax together, tickle, caress, fondle... that's a whole other anatomy pressed in close, and there's a lot to explore besides the obvious bits. Play, don't be shy (honestly -- this is no time to be shy, all of you is RIGHT THERE), suggest, feedback (yeah that's good; oh -- not there!), giggle, moan, reciprocate, have fun.
And remember Rule 1.
Direct suggestion? Don't get all undressed right away, that's part of the fun.
2007-10-27 15:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first time, it's like playing twister. "No, move your foot there, my hand over here..." Like everything it takes practice.
For setting, I suggest someplace you're both comfortable, where you won't get distracted, turn off the cell phones, etc.
Lots of foreplay, don't rush. For positions, keep it simple the first few times, man-on-top missionary and doggie style. Save the "let's stand up in a hammock" stuff for the anniversary.
Just keep it light, friendly and fun and you'll do fine.
2007-10-27 17:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your first time, I'd be a lot more concerned about yourself - it's harder for girls. The key for both of you is to be comfortable - with your surroundings and with each other. If you can't laugh at yourself, it's going to be very hard. And if you're too nervous (or it's too painful, or if you change your mind), you ought to be able to back out of it.
2007-10-27 14:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let the mood decide and place decide. If you are in bed, you could try different positions. Make sure you work you but to meet his inward drive.
Good Luck and Enjoy!
2007-10-27 15:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you SURE you want to give yourself to this guy??
im a virgin too and so is my b/f and both of us told eachother that we want to be virgins until we're married.
if its his first time then hes probly just as nervous as you and asking the same questions as you are. dont worry....and dont do it. but thats my opinion.
2007-10-27 15:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by !~pSyChO g1RL~! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
foreplay. have him go down on you and you go down on him. let him play with the booty
2007-10-27 15:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by matakovich602 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋