me and this guy were going to have sex.
we were both ready and wanted to.
but the problem was that he couldnt get it up!
we tryed for ages but nothing worked
we had both been drinking and had taked some pills
(please dont give me a lecture about the dangers blah blah blah)
we were also in a field in the middle of the night and it was kinda cold
does this have anything to do with it ??
2007-10-27 07:42:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you assume it was because of you?
It happens.
Sometimes being drunk, and taking pills prevents a guy from getting it up. Or he may have a medical problem.
When it doesn't happen, treating it like a Mission, and "trying for ages" is just pointless. At that point, the stress, added to the chemicals, are not going to allow it to happen.
It happens.
Get over it.
2007-10-27 14:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...the time, place, and weather does have something to do with it. If he has gotten it up before with you, then there is no problem. If this was his first time, then it is natural because sometimes men cannot get it up on the first time. If this is something that happens all of the time, then he might suffer from an illness where men cannot get it up because of the size of his p..., I hope this helped.
2007-10-27 08:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking could, and definitely the pills could interfere. Cold has NEVER hindered..that! LOL! There are a BUNCH of reasons for it though and my best guess is nerves though. Us guys put too much pressure on ourselves to be GREAT that sometimes it's too much pressure.
2007-10-27 07:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by radman2035 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The colds, pills, and alcohol alone will do it and then the possibility of getting caught is enough to keep the soldier from saluting.
2007-10-27 07:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol can sometimes make it almost impossible to get up. Cold as well, as seen from the Seinfeld episode called "Shrinkage". Try again with less alcohol.
2007-10-27 07:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Grick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
liquor or beer can make a guys thing not get up and im assuming that is what it was. or since you guys waited a lil bit before doing the deed, he may have over psyched himself. more than likely it wasnt you.
2007-10-27 07:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by me me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but drinking could have a lot to do with it too.
2007-10-27 07:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way to many negative influences to be able to get anything up
2007-10-27 07:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by JJDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just the alcohol, drugs and cold.
Same thing can happen because of nerves.
2007-10-27 07:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try having sex sober. and no pills. and in a room.
2007-10-27 07:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mel Mel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋