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2007-10-27 07:40:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well, to answer the question you actually asked, I would do something fun. My second marriage in December will begin with a ceremony in Vegas. We are just saying hey we will be here at this time come if you want. We want it all about us. My other suggestions would be...on a ferry, on a beach, on a helicopter, ice rink, football field....or my favorite...pick a theme...mafioso, 60's, rock and roll, whatever your fancy. Let me know if you need some great websites for themes...
2007-10-27 11:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Abby H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you are always looking for better. Well, after 5 times I would think that you would have learned that there is no better each time and that you have to WORK at a marriage to keep it from falling apart. What in the world causes you to divorce so often? Work on this marriage and don't get married again. I feel you are being very "hypocritical" by saying " I do" to 5 different men and promising to love them for the rest of your life. WHAT? It's obvious you don't mean your vows. What is it about marriage that intrigues you so much that you have to do it 5 times? I do not understand that. Oh well..good luck. Hope its your last.
2007-10-27 15:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by SeaMistress 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, can people read correctly??...the question was not, "What do you think of me getting married a 5th time?" Everyone has there own reasons why a marriage doesn't work and frankly that is not our business. My suggestion...get married in another state, or on the beach. Just the two of you or with family. Whatever makes you happy and remember what makes a marriage, not how you marry.
2007-10-27 17:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Hernandez 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well, you didn't ask people's opinions about how many times you've married, or why you're getting married again. People are so judgmental. My future sister-in-law has had five weddings. The fifth one seems to have been the charm. She and my fiance's brother seem to be very happy. They did as another poster suggested: a small, informal wedding on the beach. The only ones there were a couple of family members. This one was definitely about the marriage, not the wedding. Best wishes to you.
2007-10-27 15:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Trivial One 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I think you like the taste of wedding cake!! I think you consider carefully whether you want to really marry this man firstly before you actually go through with the ceremony. If you hadn't got it right the first four times what makes you think you have got it right this time. Marriage is supposed to be sacred and last forever not just be dissolved when you fall in love yet again. You also have to work at a marriage it isn't all moonlight and roses, so my advice to you is if you are really sure that this man is the special one in your life then promise each other to work at this marriage in your vows.
2007-10-27 15:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Amy J 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I would focus on a small ceremony with just family and really close friends. Candlelight is always a nice touch. Write your own vows that sincerely feel about why you are getting married now and about your fiance. After that I wouldn't be able to tell you a thing about weddings.
2007-10-27 16:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just have a small ceremony and a smaller reception. If you feel this is "the one" then do your own wedding vows, have a semi formal wedding dress and just a maid of honor and best man. Reception could be in a restaurant or if summer in someone's nice backyard.
2007-10-27 17:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a small gathering of very close family and friends would be appropriate. Say under 25 people. A rose garden wedding or a back yard BBQ could be nice.
2007-10-27 17:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get a 5th divorce? Honestly, I would feel so hypocritical saying the same thing to a 5th man. That I would love and cherish him forever...when it obviously means so little to you. I don't mean to sound too harsh, but are you sure you should really be re-marrying?
2007-10-27 14:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by perfect_blue_and_blond 4 · 11⤊ 1⤋
First thing that comes to mind? Don't get divorced. Work at it and see to it you stay true to your vows... hopefully he will do the same in return. Fifth times the charm I hope... Good Luck!
2007-10-27 15:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋