I really like (love) this girl, but she doesn't like me, and she is the only girl I'm going for at this moment, but I either need to know any good tips for making her like me, or just other hints and advice
oh, yeah, I'm 17 years old, almost 18, so plz help me!
2007-10-27 03:59:19 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so heart broken....
2007-10-27 03:59:38 · update #1
Firstly accept she doesnt like you - whats the point of hankering after someone you can't have (although I understand totally where you are coming from - I feel the EXACT same way about James Toseland).
Then, MAKE SURE you do NOT 'stalk' her or anything like that - it REALLY creeps a girl out when you keep showing up at the same places she is (maybe the odd occassion is fine, but certainly not more than 1-2 times a week).
Make sure your not pervy, don't be touchy feely with her, if she doesnt like you then she wont want you touching her (that also creeps a girl out).
Just get on with your life as though you never even knew her.
But, if you paths do fortunately cross then try and appear as though you are not interested in her and be relaxed, calm, confident and charming and funny - us girls love a bloke with confidence and we love a man who can make us laugh, so if you can make her laugh your onto a winner.
She may not like you as she doesnt really know you or she just is not be attracted to you or it may be a case that she is shy and embarrassed that you like her and this makes her feel awkward (thats how I used to feel when I was younger when I found out a boy liked me)
Whatever you do though do NOT tell her you love her - that will REALLY freak her out (well, at least don't tell her until you've both been dating each other for 6months AT LEAST!!)
2007-10-27 04:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by niccilicci 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you appear to be in a one-sided relation that rarely works.
First & foremost, you need to understand that you are only 17-18 and it is your age to build up your career. If you are not able to build your career, rest assured that you are anyways gonna lose her.
Second, dont get emotional or heart broken kinda. Keep your head & mind strong. This is not the end of world.
Third, if you find yourself moving towards builing your career, then propose her,. With the promising career, it is possible that she started liking you. If not, you cannot force anybody to love, but there are no less options as well..
so Be a Man & cheer always!!
2007-10-27 04:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by shiava02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can get to like anything, some may like a car other may like a mo-bike the other may like a by-cycle. So what is liking. Today your liking is this and tom morrow it will be different. Try to estimate human values. And these will be helping you every where. Haid you said LOVE, it could had made a difference. Anyway, keep it up you will have much more experiences to gain. But my sincere advice, Do not get desperate in any attempt, just remember when there is no one besides, there is GOD.
2007-10-27 04:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by sgog 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Johnny
You can't make a girl like you. It's chemistry. This will be hard to hear but you've got to move on. Sometimes women change when guys get older. Live your life and go to college and get your career. When that happens, if you still like her give it another try. Chances are when you expose yourself to a broader circle of company, you'll change your mind about her..
2007-10-27 04:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to move on, if u try to hard it will make her like u less. trust me if she she's that ur alright without her, u'll be so much more attracting to her. The biggest turnoff ever is the person being obessed with u. I'd focus a little more on ur friends, & just be nice to her, let her come to u, in time she'll get the message.
It's like playing hard to get, only, it's not hard.
2007-10-27 04:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Sorry but if she doesn't like you, you have to accept that and move on. I don't want to sound mean but why go where you're not wanted? Go where you will be wanted instead and you'll feel a lot better.
2007-10-27 04:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best suggestion is start talking to other girls besides just trying to talk to her because then you will seem like a stalker...Just play the field, if she doesn't come around then its not meant for ya'll to be...Your young and probably attractive you can find someone else that wants to be with you.
2007-10-27 04:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by ketapooh1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get close to her. Speak more often. Share your intrests and get to know her. You may find out she isnt all that after all but if you still like her buy her flowers. Tell her how you feel. Tell her she looks beautfiul :) any girl likes to hear it! Make her laugh and invite her out sometime. Ask her for one chance and see what she says. Good luck x
2007-10-27 04:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do to make someone like you. You can try to become her friend so that you can both get to know each other better, and then maybe she would develop a more romantic interest in you. However, you can't make someone feel a certain way.
Good luck!!
2007-10-27 04:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by WBMMort 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she doesn't like you? There was once a guy who liked me (i hate him) and he gave me flowers, from then on, I've been ignoring him. Don't try too hard on getting her, she might think you're crazy. Treating her as a friend may let her get to know you more, which is good.
2007-10-27 04:03:41 · answer #10 · answered by yeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋