So there is this freshman(im a senior and our school wont let us drive to school) who i met on the bus (but now i bus's changed so i never really see him anymore) He was really nice and i thought he was a cool guy and all, i saw him looking at me on the bus and all, but our conversations really just revolved around him...cause he's new, and he used to go 2 a christian school and was also homeschooled. He knows im not christian and even though he doesn't follow one sect, he's pretty religious. I kinda just jump from religion to religion, judaism, buddhism, islam...so on. But my problem now is he has an identical twin. (i can tell a difference between them i just don't remember which one it was that i met)And they both seem to ignore me in the halls. In fact they ignore everyone, i don't ever see them conversing with anyone. Although lately, i saw one of them look at me a few times and then immediately look away when i looked back at him. I wasn't sure to say hi or whatnot. So whats up?
2007-10-27 03:48:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, he's not completely socially backwards, he dresses stylishly, plays sports, he's also attractive too(well i guess both are lol) but why won't he even acknowledge me? and what should i do?
2007-10-27 03:48:49 · update #1
Forget him and find someone else. The hardcore religious upbringing has left him really screwed up. You can not fix him, he will have to fix himself.
2007-10-27 03:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best I can think of, he has a slight attraction to you but twins are complicated sometimes. Sometimes they have this bond that they dont want anybody to break, or anybody to come between them. INFACT! they both might like you and this is why they dont talk to you because they dont want you to come between them. If that isnt the case, then is is because they are too immature to realize that just because your a senior doesnt mean anything. I know a few guys like that.. I went through a similar situation. Dont stress it so much... just go and talk to both of them...
2007-10-27 10:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by little_averil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iiits obviousss he iss shy,, anddd doesnt knoww iff he were to say hi to you iff your reaction would be like " why the heck are you sayin hi to me?"
soo ii would say why don't you talk to him on the bus and justt make iit seem like you just want to be friends first becuase then that will attract hiim more to you...
soo just talk to him and see what happensz...
iim pretty suree he will definatly come around and you can probably gain anew friendship maybe even a new love =]
goood luck =]
2007-10-27 10:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just go up to him and say hi, i wouldn't really mind which, but I'll definently say hi to one of them. Perhaps they're quite shy inside, or maybe something has been going on in their lives, have a chat with them and see if you can help.
2007-10-27 10:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by yeeeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since He was home schooled and went to a christian school I think he is shy and doesn't have many social skills. If you want to talk to him you will have to be the aggressor. you will have to go to him. if he likes you then he will let you know If he doesn't like you he will start avoiding you.
2007-10-27 10:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by chuck t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you see him just flash a friendly smile and say hi or you can introduce yourself to him and get to know each other better or if you can not do all of those then mabye you have a crush on him
2007-10-27 10:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to tell you about his faith.
A true Christian will never marry someone who isnt of the same faith because it divides the home.
They wont even bother dating them because they know it'll dead end, no matter how cute they think you are.
2007-10-27 10:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it bluntly, he doesn't like you. You said yourself the conversation revolved around him and not you. If they ignore everyone they are weird anyway.
2007-10-27 10:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by Emma W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him ask him out on a date, do something before its to late & your kicking yourself wondering what could have happened, and no matter what dont question your actions, whats the worst that can happen you dont get the guy?
2007-10-27 10:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by snavelz_package 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 long!
2007-10-27 10:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋