i am a guy who is 22years old ,it all started 3 years ago when i met my girlfriend jessy we fell in love 4 2 years then she went to the united kingdom.when she was gone i fell into another relationship not knowing the person is like 15years older than me.we have been n love 4 3years now but did not split with jessy i cal her daily.i love them both wat do i do.the second one wants me to marry her,
2007-10-27 01:16:31 · 8 answers · asked by Suzzanne S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, You need to write out a list of pros and cons for each person. What things are still making you love jessy even though she's away? and what exactly do you love about this newer/older woman?
Plus, is Jessy LIVING in the UK now? Or is she just temporarily staying there? If she is staying there, that's going to create a huge problem. She could be seeing another guy over there, so maybe you guys should have a discussion on it. If you're talking to her daily, I find it kind of hard that you'd have a lot to talk about if you're hiding your other girlfriend from her.
The older woman you're seeing-- does she know that you have a girlfriend elsewhere? Or is she just wanting to get married because she simply feels she's running out of time? 22 is really young for marriage, there are plenty of oppurtunities to meet great people.
You have a lot of things to think about, but you can only decide on this one yourself. But I would advise that you give up one of them, because it's completely selfish to have two women, plus you're always leading one on when you really have no intentions with them. Other than that, I hope you make the best decision for YOU, and don't get pressured into something.
Best of luck.
2007-10-27 01:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Questionable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about? Surely you are not saying that you are seeing two women at the same time? At 22 are you really ready to marry someone that much older than you? Also have you thought how this would effect "Jessy", you must inform them both of the situation immediately. I will not be pretty and you better be prepared to be hated. At least if you get it all out in the open then the healing can begin.
2007-10-27 01:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-23 01:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are guy, how come yr name is Suzanne. Looks like yu will screw anything no matter what(15 yrs older than you, fit to be your mum) and you are a cheat. You cant have your cake and eat it too. Tell Jessy the truth and stop playing games with everyone.
2007-10-27 01:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move to a place that's right in the middle of the two relationships. More than likely you find someone new where your at! Your 22 dude, not to put you down, but, you really don't know what you want yet!! Wanting to love two ladies, I don't think so!!
2007-10-27 01:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta do what it do. See if you still have sparks with jessy then make the decision.
2007-10-27 01:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by timmy boomstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i got to say is listen to your heart. you don't wana do something that your going to have to live with the rest of your life. do what you think is best and smartest, and what you are happy with
2007-10-27 01:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who loves you more, you is the best for you, who do you honestly feel like you can have a future with?
2007-10-27 01:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋