I want to be baptized, but...?

Question

I don't know how to ask my parents to come.
I want them to be there for it, I just don't know how to invite them without them saying "why do you wanna be baptized?"
....That's how they are with things like this.
I plan on being baptized about a month from now, whether I get my family to show up or not. I would really like to have them there without them thinking I'm insane though.
Does anyone have any advice?

I'm not afraid to ask them to come, I just don't know if I'll be able to deal with their response.

I know why I want to be baptized, they know why people get baptized. It'll feel weird telling them I'm getting baptized though...

That touchy-feely walk with Jesus stuff will have them laughing in my face. They don't take religion very serious.
That's why I need help with what I tell them.

Answer 1

Start by saying...
" I want to be Baptized and I would love for you to be there......."

If they question you, show them Acts 2:38 and Mark 16:16 and tell them this is what you believe.....If in fact you do.

Then hopefully they will come, if not, do it anyway.
Your salvation depends upon following a live in Christ and following His teachings.

Hear the Word
Believe the Word
Admit you are a sinner
Repent of your sins
BE BAPTIZED!
Live a faithful life.

Answer 2

The first question that comes to mind is Why. Why does anyone want to become part of the name calling, threatening, intolerant, hateful, self righteous, bible spouting crew that makes up the so called christian groups.

How about you seriously think about believeing in the power within you. The fact that no one and nothing has any control over your life or will miraculously answer all your problems and grant your wishes, selfish (most of them) or not by "Praying". think about the state of the world and ask what good prayed has done for anyone except the collection basket.

If you wish to persue this course of action, surrendering yourself to the influence of mass hysteria and propaganda, then have the will to go to your parents and tell them of you intentions and provide good reasons why they should not object and should support your choice.

As it is, you have feelings that they will not apporve. But you also cannnot seem to find the justification for your actions. Until you can do this and carefully convince them that what you are doing is "Right" and justifiable, I suggest that you have some real second thoughts.

If yu don't have the convictions to convince someone else you are making a right decision than you have grave doubts about it yourself. Step back and think about what you are. Don't let the brain washing of "Friends" lead you into something you don't absolutely believe in without ANY DOUBT. these bible thumpers talk a good talk but underneath - how realistic is the party line. Maybe they are friendly to you now, before you join. tell them the party is off and see how they treat you. This is a real test of the christian spirit. Put it to the test and see what happens. THEN decide whether you should let someone get you wet.

Answer 3

Well, why DO you want to be baptized?
Answer that question for yourself, first... even before you are baptized.
Then you will be prepared to answer them when they ask you.

I was baptized when I was 18. I know why I wanted to be baptized and I told my family why... even though they disapproved.

**EDIT**
Why do you want your parents there? If you do not think you can handle their response, then don't invite them. If you would like them to be there so that maybe they can hear the gospel or be drawn closer to Jesus, then DO invite them.
But the best way to make your faith muscles grow is to have a dilemma and to have to rely totally on God for the outcome.

Begin praying for your family's salvation and that God would give you an answer for everything your family questions.

There used to be a song we sang at church when I first became a Christian... some of the words are as follows:
I have decided to follow Jesus, no turning back.
Though none go with me, still I will follow, no turning back.
The cross before me, the world behind me, no turning back.

Yes, they will probably think you insane. They may even make fun of you. Will you still follow Jesus? Will you still pray for your family? Will you still love them right where they are and keep praying for them for as long as it takes?

Answer 4

Basically, being obedient to God in a world where many have rejected him is just plain tough...as the Bible said it would be.

It makes it harder when those people that are closest to you do not understand the most important part of your life. So, yeah, it's going to be hard. They may think you're silly, crazy, or becoming some sort of fanatic.
But you have to invite them and you have to remember that God never leaves His children, ever.
Good luck and pray for strength that only God can give.

Answer 5

Your best plan is not to invite them they will feel out of place and embarrass and afraid if some one asks them a question they wont know the answer the the last thing they would want is to ambushed into having to go to a few church services
SO for your parents sake don't Invite them its just morally wrong . It would be like asking me to go to A church services knowing what the reaction would be when I tell them my name ,.

Answer 6

When I was baptized I invited my unsaved neighbors and I did not get such a reaction from them. People seem to know that a baptism is a solemn occasion and usually can respect the fact that you'd just like them there for it. And it is such an awesome opportunity to witness.

Answer 7

Your parents do not need to know why you want to get baptized. That's a hint, just fire back with, "does this mean you're coming or not?" and play the question game all day with them if that's what they want to do.

All they really need to know is that you would like them there. This is your decision, you are entitled to it, and they can accept or reject your offer. It's that simple.

Answer 8

Just invite them and tell them why. You can say - "Mom and dad, I've been wanting to rededicate my life to (or deepen my walk with) Christ and I'm going to be baptized in November. I'd really love it if you could come." If they ask you why - just tell them - it might be a witness to them. If they don't come, I'm sure that it will be disappointing, but at least you've invited them.

Answer 9

I had this same type of issue and I stood up and told them. I was afraid they would make fun of me and not come. No one in my family attends church so it was hard. But I prayed hard about it and then i just told them i wasn't scared or anything. Pray God helps with everything He is the one that will give you the best advice. Read Psalm 34. Good luck!

Answer 10

Tell them that baptism by immersion in the name of Jesus Christ is for the forgiveness of sins and that you want to have yours forgiven. I am sure that they are supportive parents and would like to be there for this occasion. However, I wouldn't wait for a month, I would do it as soon as possible.