How to tell if a girl wants to be more than friends...?

Question

I am really interested in this girl and she happens to be one of my best friends. I am not sure if she just wants to be friends or more because she gives off mixed signals. Like the other day she invited me to her dorm room to watch the game and it was just us. Also, there are other times when she seems really excited to see me. However, sometimes when we hang out she will invite friends so its like we can't be alone. So I'm confused on whether or not she does like me. Also, I would appreciate advice on what I should do...

Also, a few weeks ago i saw her mother and her mother remembered me. Now i and only met her mother for about 20 min. like 5 months ago. I could be looking to much into this but a couple people have told me that this is a good sign because it means she has mentioned me atleast a few times. Is it a good sign or am i looking into it too much?

Answer 1

You guys are best friends. She isn't SENDING mixed signals, you are GETTING them. What you should do is go straight up to her. Don't be afraid to say what you need to say.If she says no, then don't get upset, because in the inside, she feels good to know that there is someone that appreciates her.

Answer 2

I would have to assume that as one of your best friends, you guys are able to talk. In fact, you spend time alone ,hence, talking will be a piece of cake.While I can see how you can believe she is sending you mixed signals, I can also see how it is possible for you to misunderstand all of her actions as a result of your romantic interest in her. What you need to do is clarify the situation by telling her of your interest in her and asking if there is any chance of the both of you getting together. Also let her know that you do not want to hurt your current relationship no matter what she says as a response. Your next move now depends on what she says and does after you let her know of your interest in a romance with her. I hope it works out the way you want it to .Good luck.

Answer 3

oh god I had one of those...

yeah those kind of girls will dissapoint you. she's just using you for company, for when she's not with her friends that she wants to be with. she doesn't want to be alone. no one does.

but it could be the exact opposite. why don't you make a move on her, and depending what she does, you have your answer. BUT be ready to take the risk, coz I did that with a girl I was really close to and now we dont hang out anymore.

and if she doesn't want to be more than friends, then stop hanging out with her and find yourself a girl that DOES want to be more than friends

Answer 4

She is probably asking herself the same question "Does he want to be more then friends? That is why she is giving you mixed signals, when she was alone with you you did not ask her out or even try to kiss her, I presume. Go ask her out. I hope you both get together and become more then friends.

Answer 5

I don't think she is asking you indirectly, it seems a rather funny way of doing it. Try and see what other stuff she does when you're around, as in her other behavior towards you. I hope you understand what I mean. Good luck.

Answer 6

she obviously dig you man if your alone watching a game.... just cause she invites the friends sometimes doesn't mean she doesn't like you.. means she wants to see what her friends think about you.. go for it.. .your in college for godsake, man up! but seriously go for it.

Answer 7

Halloween is coming up.. Take her to a haunted house or scary movie..(wink wink) haha

Answer 8

show her that you like her without telling.