okay see i had sex with this guy and we used a condom but it kept slippin or whatever but we kept tryna slide it back on but he was too big but we still tried tho but newayz i only had sex wit him one time cause after that time my vagina started itching so i went to the doctor and got tested and they said i had chlamydia and i got treated or whatever but newayz now im worried if i have HIV cause this guy is like really really fine and i do mean fine and some girl the other day was like i heard he has aids and i was like really? and you know it kinda worried me but see i live in like a small town and gossip happens alot even when it's not true cuz people are real nosy down here and there are alot of haters but newayz he has a kid so if he does have aids wouldnt he have given it to his baby momma and the doctor would have told her right but i dont know cause im really scared right now and dont know what to do cause if i find out i have aids my life is over! but i havent slept wit him no!
2007-10-23 21:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by elleshisa 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
IF HE HAS CHLAMYDIA THIS SHOULD SHOW YOU THAT HE IS SLEEPING AROUND. EACH TIME WITH ANYONE YOU HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX YOU ARE TAKING A CHANCE. YES THEY WOULD TELL THE MOTHER IF THE BABY IS HIV POSITIVE. RUMORS DO GO AROUND. BUT YOU NEED TO GO TO YOUR DOCTOR AND HAVE HIM RUN A HIV TEST FOR YOUR OWN WELL BEING AND PEACE OF MIND. NEVER EVER HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX. YOU ARE SIGNING YOUR LIFE AWAY EACH TIME YOU DO, REMEMBER IT JUST TAKES THAT ONE TIME. GO TO THE DOCTOR, ALWAYS HAVE PROTECTED SEX, AND STAY AWAY FROM THIS GUY, HE IS A PLAYER
2007-10-23 23:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got chlamydia from him, you could also get AIDS from him. The chances of getting AIDS from a single act of sex are THOUGHT to be low... but honestly, no one really knows for certain.
Because the chances are low, however, the the fact that his woman doesn't have AIDS doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't. She simply may have been lucky so far.
You should see a doctor about an HIV test. You'll probably need one now and then another one 6 months after when you had sex with him.
If you don't have a regular doctor, inquire about HIV testing at the clinic where you were treated for chlamydia. Most communities have a free HIV testing clinic available. Another place would be to check the yellow pages - check under AIDS, HIV, and human immunodeficiency virus.
Good luck! And no more sex without a condom!
2007-10-23 21:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Doxycycline 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the time you've at your associates homestead to locate any type of pastime even if its quickly nutrition a pastime is funds and after that get on authorities assistance like nutrition stamps, WIC, and also you've were given to have some funds coming in for area 8 housing yet thats why you go with some type of jobs its very cheap yet you nevertheless can't pay for it once you're broke. And sue your boyfriend for newborn help i imagine your justified to do it being that he decieved you into questioning he should be there for you a then in simple terms bailed. a authentic guy must have advised you contained in the start wether he change into waiting for a infant or no longer so that you'll not be in this mess. yet he took the cowards way out sue him.
2016-10-22 22:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get tested for HIV. yes, it's scary but it's for your own peace of mind. you can't assume that if his family is healthy, he also is... who knows?!!! if you're worried about gossips too, i think you can have the test done discretely by choosing an alias, choosing anonimity, ordering a do-it-yourself HIV test kit or just have it tested in another town where no one knows you. and besides, i believe that medical information is strictly confidential. if ever the test would turn-out positive (i hope not), it's not the end of your life. there's no cure yet but if it's treated early... and with proper care and medications, your chance of survival is still good. if it's negative, thank God and be more careful next time.
2007-10-23 22:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by bleux 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a complete check up with a gynecologist. Tell them about possible exposure and get anything cleared up.
Good luck. Your odds of getting HIV from an infected guy in a single act of sex is about 1 in 400 so it is pretty low.
2007-10-24 01:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you caught chlamidya from him then it is possible you caught HIV from him,
unfortunately, not all expectant mothers have hiv tests so just because he has a child does not mean he doesn't have hiv
the best thing you can do is get a test otherwise you will worry about this forever
good luck
2007-10-23 22:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by donnajaneindigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The possible option in this case would be to go to your local Doctor or hospital and get tested before it gets too late. this mistake should be a learning point for you.
2007-10-23 21:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋