He has genital warts, I don't, what now?

Question

Just started dating an awesome guy. He recently told me that he has genital warts. We haven't done anything other than kiss. So what now? I could see this being serious relationship but now I don't know what to do. What are my chances of getting it? How could I get it? What can we do physically and still be safe?

Also, was talking to a friend who has had genital warts and she said that once they are treated that they shouldn't come back for a long time. Is this true?

Answer 1

First of all, just because the warts might be physically gone, doesn't mean the virus that causes them is (HPV). Plus, they can always come back after they have been treated. I've read as much as 50% of people who have had genital warts treated, end up having them come back and having to treat them again.

There are a few things you can do to HELP prevent the spread of the virus, but if a person has sex with someone who has HPV there will ALWAYS be a chance they can contract the virus.

ALWAYS use condoms and never had sex or do anything sexual if he has genital warts present. HPV can be spread regardlesss if there are genital warts present or not, but you have a greater chance of contracting the virus if you come into DIRECT contact with the warts. Also, condoms can HELP, but they are never truely 100% effective (only abstinence is). Condoms only cover a man's penis, and not the entire genital area. So, just the rubbing back and forth of the genital areas during foreplay or sex is enough to spread HPV. Any kind of DIRECT skin to skin contact with the infected area can spread the virus.

For the most part HPV is pretty harmless. It's the cervical cancer that is the main concern with HPV. With proper screenings though, like pap smears, abnormalities on the cervix can usually be caught early enough before they turn into pre-cancerous cells or cervical cancer.

You are just going to have to make a personal decision about whether or not you want to be with him. Most people can look past the person they love or care for having HPV, but some people can't. My fiance chose to stay with me, despite me having both HPV and genital herpes. He loves me for me, viruses and all!

Oh, and one last thing...you should look into getting the HPV vaccine called Gardasil. It protects women from 4 different kinds of HPV. Two of those kinds are known to cause 70% of cervical cancer and the other two kinds are known to cause about 90% of genital wart cases!
http://www.gardasil.com/

Take care!

Answer 2

OK, first your questions; you have a 100% cChance of getting it with out protection and planing. Just a kiss can spread it. If you get it on your hand and down wash, it can spread to you.

ST D's are not a lot of fun, but have been around in the public eye for 25 or so years now, so their is a lot more know about it today then in the 80's.

Start with a trip to a health professional. Get some up to date ideas and knowledge on the subject. Don't dump the guy but put this on hold tell your in the know. And yes your girl friend was right, sometimes after a out break it doesn't show up for years again, but then taking a chance is like gambling right?

Answer 3

Are you trying to join the genital wart club???


WHAT ARE GENITAL WARTS?
Genital warts are usually flesh-colored growths. The types of HPV that cause genital warts are different from the types that can cause cervical cancer.

About 2 out of 3 people who have sexual contact with a person who has genital warts will also get them. And even if the genital warts are treated, 25% of cases come back within 3 months if HPV is still present.
THERE'S GOOD NEWS
Being vaccinated with GARDASIL before coming into contact with a person who has HPV can help protect you against HPV Types 6 and 11—the types of HPV that cause most cases of genital warts.

IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT GARDASIL
HPV Types 16 and 18 cause 70% of cervical cancer cases, and HPV Types 6 and 11 cause 90% of genital warts cases.
GARDASIL may not fully protect everyone and does not prevent all types of cervical cancer, so it is important to continue regular cervical cancer screenings.
Anyone who is allergic to the ingredients of GARDASIL should not receive the vaccine. GARDASIL is not for women who are pregnant.
GARDASIL will not treat cervical cancer and genital warts, and will not protect against diseases caused by other HPV types.
GARDASIL is given as 3 injections over 6 months and can cause pain, swelling, itching, and redness at the injection site, fever, nausea, and dizziness.
Only a doctor or healthcare professional can decide if GARDASIL is right for you or your daughter.



IMO...........MOVE ON!

Answer 4

Although the actual warts can be removed the virus is always there. Search the net to learn more about HPV before doing anything physical.