while having intercourse with my girlfriend she must of ripped and there was blood, we didnt notice till afterwards, and we didnt use a condom as she is on the pill. neither of us have an s.t.d. but i am concerned that this may cause the start of hiv as i have heard that blood mixing is the cause of it even if neither of us have got an std. please help as i am very concerned, only sensible answers please.
2007-10-19 08:04:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
If you don't have it you can't spread it.
If neither of you have it, you're both safe
2007-10-19 08:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cannot get HIV if neither of you is infected. in order to get HIV you must have contact with an HIV infected person's blood or semen, vaginal fluid.
that being said, if your girlfriend was bleeding after sex and especially if the intercourse was at all painful for her, she should immediately go see a doctor as it could be something including STD, yeast infection, bladder infection, cyst etc...
2007-10-19 08:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot GET hiv if neither of you have it!! you have to be infected with the disease to get or pass it on to others through anything. if you are worried she might have something go get a test done for any std or hiv. but if she is clear than no you cannot get hiv!!!
2007-10-19 08:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sxyblonde S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you or your g/f have HIV. And if you don't know if you or she does why in God's name are you risking having sex? You have to have HIV to spread it, it's not just the mixing of fluids. Start researching.
2007-10-19 08:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I easily have adventure comparable to her yet worse, i grew to become into raped for 6 years by making use of my uncle for the age of 12, as quickly as I have been given with my bf i grew to become into bleeding throughout intercourse purely, and my abdomen injury too, it gets greater appropriate i been with my bf for 9 months and it has stopped now, purely attempt and bypass sluggish at intercourse first, and don't push it in to puzzling, she would be in a position to get greater appropriate regardless of the undeniable fact that, additionally being a rape sufferer she could adventure different issues like seeing the rapist face throughout intercourse help her via this and be calm together with her. I promise she would be in a position to strengthen, I easily have experienced this so therefor i be attentive to, good success to you the two:)
2016-10-07 05:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one of you to get HIV, one of you has to have HIV. Just because she bled doesn't mean a thing. But you may want to use a lubricant in future to prevent further tearing.
2007-10-19 08:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude, u need to take it easy...
no matter u would get it or not, keep calm is very important...
i can tell u, i'm a HIV+ ,but i just live some 6 yrs all right, i m very happy everyday.and i have many friends on positivesingles.com. and i think they are all like me.
so... keep u and your girl's mood, and go to a dr. okay?
GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-19 20:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by BMW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People such as yourself should not be having sex, if you don't undertand how diseases are transmitted. You can't get or give someone HIV if you both don't have it. Go read a biology book.
2007-10-19 08:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by ranger752555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HIV is only spread from an infected person...if neither of you had HIV before, then neither of you has it now.
IF YOU ARE CONCERNED ABOUT STD's, PUT A CONDOM ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-19 09:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Benjamin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was her first time then its perfectly normal.......You can't spread HIV if non of you guys have it....Just wear a condom is alot safer
2007-10-19 18:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jaime P. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋