I just find it really nasty if a guy isn't circumcised and i wont have sex if he isn't. I know not everyone is and i can't just ask someone to get circumcised but its dirty no matter how much they wash it, am i going to run into trouble with my sex life by keeping this standard?
2007-10-18 12:43:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
I think your clitoris is duty, so CUT IT OFF
I find it very sad that you think of males as objects, I am 18, male and circumcised. It was done against my will. I wouldn’t want to sleep with a woman that didn't respect the human body.
You must be very young to be acting so childish. You wouldn't have the faintest idea of what it’s like to be sexually mutilated.
2007-10-19 22:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure why you think you will run into trouble finding circumcised guys. It's your life and your choice of standards. But I do agree that if I was a guy I wouldn't do it late in life by choice if I was an adult. There is more chance of catching a STI ect if circumcised because it's there to protect his ####. But at the same time infection is more likley with it. There are pro's and con's in both choices. But I would think that is you loved the guy then what ever he is should be fine. Try using a condom that way you wont have to see any diffrence.
2007-10-18 19:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by shaelene 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well worldwide yeah you're cutting down the men you can have sex with (only 15% of the world's men, Europeans are out, a lot of Aussies are out, etc) and also there is a lot of evidence that sex with a circumcised man is not as good for the woman.
Also, you really need to get over that bizarre fear. I don't know why you think it's dirty and nasty but it's not! Your loss, anyway.
http://www.sexasnatureintendedit.com
2007-10-22 00:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a girl did ask a guy to get circumcised it would be very selfish of her. It would be like asking her to get her clitoris or eyelids removed. There is a lot of information coming out now about how barbaric and useless circumcision really is.
As far as the dirty part, if you find a guy that does have a unclean foreskin, most likely if he doesn't wash his penis he doesn't wash his hair or brush his teeth either. Hopefully you won't be looking for a guy like that anyway.
2007-10-22 18:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you ar ebeing closed minded. your are so absorbed in what you think is normal, that you have forgoted that circumcision is actualy abnormal. And, you are wrong. if they clean themselves regularily, then they are not dirty, no matter how you look at it. I have known a lot of men who are circumsiszed that are a lot more nasty than the ones i know that are not. you need to get this stuff out of your head, it is a very immature way to be thinking. Do you realize that you dont make sence? if they wash over and over again, how can they be dirty? It is only a hold of skin, it is not difficult to clean it. do you realize how many folds you have? Yes i do think this could hurt your sex life. You could meet a great guy that is perfect for you in so many ways but you wont even give him a chance because of one little flap of skin? that is just stupid. This is an immature standered and i really think that you should try to open up your mind a little bit and look at it logically.
2007-10-18 19:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are and I am going to let you know that you are absolutely wrong about our un-circumcised penises being dirty no matter how we wash it. I will have you know I went with a nurse for three years and she never knew I was not circumcised. I take two to three showers a day (I am a trainer at a health club) Now I have seen some men who are not circumcised but who can not skin there penis back and to me that would be the ones you are probably talking about but my self and other men like me resent you calling us dirty.. I guess you are going to be know as the pecker checker girl.. I do wish you luck and love... Grant M in Pennsylvania... Oh yes I have never had any complaints about stinking or being dirty.....
2007-10-18 20:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter if you do or not. I think that if this is your standard and the way you feel than you are perfectly entitled to your opinion.
I know you can't ask, and I know that there is the problem of falling for that wonderful guy only to find out later that he isn't. Than you have that problem come back to you.
Is this worth not being with the guy? I can't answer that for you but I can tell you people have fewer and more stupid reasons than that.
2007-10-18 19:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by neon2054 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" am i [sic] going to run into trouble with my sex life by keeping this standard?"
In Europe you will.
Perhaps you should make an effort to overcome your misinformed prejudices instead of expecting men to mutilate themselves in order to conform to them. How would you feel if a man told you your natural anatomy was "dirty" and that YOU should get circumcised?
2007-10-18 22:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mich 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
You're going to cut down the number of available prospects, that's for sure.
There's nothing "dirty" or "nasty" about a foreskin if the guy retracts it and cleans it regularly. But to each his or her own hang-ups.
Maybe you should have prospective dates drop their pants and show you what they've got before you get involved with them, because no guy is going to get himself cut for you.
2007-10-18 22:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. most men are circumsized nowadays. it is rare to run into a guy that isn't although they are still out there. don't change who you are. just be careful. you could fall in love with someone to later find out they aren't circumsized...could you live with that? there really isn't a way around that because you don't want to just go jumping into bed with every guy either to find out if they are or aren't first because the standard won't hinder your sex life, but i guarantee an STD will. hope this helps.
2007-10-18 19:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by shorty03_7 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋