I have recently been cheating on my wife with hookers. I got a checkup and i have herpes. I have been sleeping with my wife too. What is the best way for me to tell her that she probably has herpes too now?
2007-10-17 05:07:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
First if all, I think you're an idiot and based on the other quesitons you've posed (after looking at your profile) I don't think this question is real. However, since you will clearly lead a life of stupidity and lies when you grow up, here's my answer:
News flash...
there's no good way to tell your wife you've been paying whores for sex, you have herpes and now she probably has it too. You better tell her even if she doesn't get a breakout though. She could have contracted it but not had a breakout yet. Herpes can be especially dangerous for a woman too. A GENITAL HERPES INFECTION DOUBLES THE RISK OF CERVICAL CANCER among women who have human papillomavirus. Chances are you've also passed HPV onto your wife. It's very common now and a high percentage non-monogamous sexually active men are carriers although it does not affect them.
So watch your cervix...oh wait...you're a man? You don't have a cervix? No? I guess it's just your wife who could potentially get cancer. What a bummer for her.
Stop screwing hookers...UNPROTECTED FOR THAT MATTER! Tell you're wife now before she finds out on her own. And be prepared that this might be the end of your relationship. Even if it's not over, it will certainly never be the same. You just can't unring this bell.
2007-10-17 05:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth.........that you have been having sex with hookers and have now contracted herpes. Be a man, step up to the plate and accept your responsibility to your wife (and I use that term loosely). The least she deserves would be the truth. There are always consequences for wrong doings and you are about to find out what some of those are.
I think she needs to be able to decide if she wants to continue in this type of relationship.......one of my biggest fears for her is what you may bring home next time. I honestly do not believe that Herpes is your biggest problem here, you are putting your life as well as your wife's life in jeopardy and you aren't giving her the choice. There are far worse things out there than Herpes such as AIDS/Hepatitis C. What are you thinking man? Try reversing this question and ask yourself how you would want your wife to tell you she's been sleeping around and now has Herpes. Just how would that make you feel? If you don't love the woman, and want your sexual freedom tell her and move on.......what you are doing is so unfair to her. Maybe I'm wrong, but, I'm not detecting any real remorse here for your actions.....more like a darn I got caught. She deserves so much more. If you do love her (doubtful or you wouldn't have done what you did), you need some serious counseling, but first and foremost you need to come clean with your wife so she can make her own choices.
2007-10-17 05:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by ~mobabe~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 12:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by shannonhouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what do u mean by the "best" way.
If you are asking the best way you can do to protect your wife,then i will suggest you to tell her honestly what you did and what u are worrying now,no matter what she will do to you.
If you are asking for the best way to prevent her from crying or shouting at u....does your wife love you?if she does,man...maybe she won't shout at you,but i'm sure that she will cry,not because of that herpes virus,but because of you,the one she loved cheating her.
Anyway,you still have to tell her,no matter how you say it,her reactions are all depends on how much does she loves you.
Herpes is treatable with Acyclovir,while heartbreaking will need time and your love.
2007-10-17 05:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by YAO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Man!
She may not catch it. you could pass it on but its not 100%. Go to the doctors and get the meds to stop you from passing it on. you might want to get check for other stds too. I really wouldn't be worried about the herps I would be more worried about your relastionship with you wife. Good Luck
2007-10-17 05:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell her the truth
2. Grow up
3. Hit your head with something hard
4. Pack you bags and leave her in peace - she wouldn't want you now anyway !
If i were her i'd kill you ! Not only you cheated on her you also gave her an STD and doubled or tripled her risk of getting cancer ! And you call yourself a man !!
2007-10-17 10:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by Paula84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are screwed - really bad.
I suppose you should get a really good divorce lawer. Since you are already an ***, you should do what you can to save your honor, if there is any left, is to tell her outright. A romatic evening will just establish just how much of a jerk that you are.
2007-10-17 05:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by ljv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a damn asshole!!!!!!!!!!!! 1st off your cheating on your wife with friggin hoes! Then you have sex with her after you've been with this skanks and give her an uncureable STD!! And now you have the nerve to ask a bunch of strangers, about the best way to tell her! You are such a loser! I hope she shoots you when you tell her! good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-17 10:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Nik 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
haha!!! your problem not mine, haha im laughing about this, haha then again its your problem so you enjoy your herpes and wish your wife a good time too
2007-10-17 07:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She will know as soon as she gets it; the first outbreak hurts like hell. She may not have contracted it yet, like if you didn't have an open sore.
2007-10-17 05:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Flatpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋