so when we were together and had intercourse, he had to go to the doctor for a bump on his pubic area...and while we were together he had said that it was because of me but then said just joking. well he called me just now and said that he lied to me, that it is because of me, because the last time we had intercourse it came back.
but the thing is, we had intercourse often..very often!...and he only got the bump twice....
now i go to the doctor very often. i get blood tests and urine tests, just for a regualr check up...so if i had something wouldnt they have found it already from the blood and urine tests????
2007-10-14 16:32:27 · 12 answers · asked by my skittles are green >.< 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
katie f-
lol thanks...i will be sure to tell him that! lol
2007-10-14 16:37:00 · update #1
and yea i've had a pap smear before too....recently...not even 3 months ago...so
2007-10-14 16:37:33 · update #2
well he didnt go and see if he had an STD tho....he just went to his regular family doctor...and he checked the bump out....i wasnt in the room when the doc said it but my ex said that its because of me....
2007-10-14 16:40:52 · update #3
he's a virgin btw so....i was his first.....
n his bump was kinda like a swollen lymphnote or swollen gland or what ever...
2007-10-14 17:04:07 · update #4
Yes they would have... dont worry about it dont let him stress you out.. as long as youve been checked and cleared tell him to **** off
2007-10-14 16:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he possibly has something, possibly herpes. You may not know you have it because you haven't had an outbreak. Swollen glands in your groin are a red flag! A bump can mean a wart, herpes, or an ingrown hair, but with a swollen gland it is likely herpes. He may have gotten it after sex because the friction of sex itself brings out herpes sores. So, go get checked. If he does have it, then it is possibly you gave it to him and just don't have any symptoms of an STD. Good luck, and it's not the end of the world if it is. Just be prepared and educate yourself.
2007-10-14 17:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No those do not test for STD's. You need to ask for STD's and since he thinks you have one you need to go in and get thoroughly tested. Especially since HE has one as he says. Call your doc and then ask to be tested for every STD there is. If your ex has an STD and he thinks you gave it to him you most likely have it even if you got it from him because of all the sex the two of you had. Go get tested this week so you know for sure what is going on. If you do test positive for something you will need to notify all of you sex partners you have had so they can get tested. STD's are not something to ignore or joke about so go get tested.
2007-10-14 16:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's lying, girl. if that bump is still there he knows good and damn well where he got it from but he is projecting his own guilt onto you. don't let him, flip the script, ask his nasty @ss where the h*ll did he get that bump from cause you know for sure it didn't come from you and actually ask him has he cheated on you. of course he will lie and so no, but check this out, if you keep having sex with him unprotected you are going to get it too. MAKE his @ss get checked for STD's. if he has one you know what you have to do.
2007-10-14 16:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by frigginhilarious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if they were looking for STD's. What did his doctor say? If the doctor did tests and didn't tell him it was a STD then it probably wasn't. He sounds annoying. Go and get yourself tested for STDs specifically at the health department and then put him out of your mind.
2007-10-14 16:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time he tries to pin this on you, ask him specifically what the Dr. said it is called. If he can't tell you, tell him not to call you again until he has a proper diagnosis and can prove it has anything at all to do with you.
I personally think he is trying to spook you.
2007-10-14 16:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way, I would go get tested. It is very likely that he got a STD from someone else and may have even passed it to you.
Good luck with that one.
2007-10-14 16:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by byroneann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely yes the doctor can easy detect if you have diseases since you gave sample of your urine and blood which the best specimens to check.
2007-10-14 16:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by AVALINE C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ex is playing mind games, the next time he calls tell him you don't want to talk to him ever again.
2007-10-14 16:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
they need to do a pap smear sooner the better.
2007-10-14 16:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋