i met this girl at school a few months ago...we chat a lot and stuff (she starts the convo 99% of the time) ...she calls me...she visits me at work...
so after a while....i told her that i liked her to see if she feels the same way....but she told me that she likes me as a good "friend"....
recently....she told me that she got a BF ....but still she keeps on calling me and visiting me...i dont understand
im 18 shes 16
2007-10-11 22:37:06 · 7 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She obviously just wants to be ur GOOD FRIEND even tho' she already has a BF.
You seem uncomfortable with her choice... I think what she's doing is fine at least she's being honest.
So what exactly do u want from her? Do want more than a friendship?
Perhaps it's a good idea to suggest to her that since you r her good friend y not let her introduce u to her BF??? At least that will clear off some of ur "doubts".
Plus if u like the friendship with her, u need to be more INITIATIVE in ur convo with her - I'm sure u know communication is a two-way kind of thing.
Lastly, common... both of u r still VERY YOUNG... don't rush yourself to commit to someone... at this young age it's a good idea to make lots of friends and enjoy it. Although no friendship is ever so perfect it doesn't mean u should stop making friends...errr not that I said you are BUT this is just my suggestion :).
Good luck 2 u! :)
2007-10-11 22:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Maxelimus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay Cool. Be friendly and be careful. She may be keeping you on a string in case her other BF goes sour. Some girls like having 2 guys buzzing around them. So bee wary and keep yourself from getting stung.
2007-10-12 05:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by older is wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be because of the boyfriend that shes saying your a gurd friend because she doesnt want to cheat on him.. or it cuz be the fact your 18 and shes 16.. just give it time.. im sure everything will eb okaii :)
2007-10-12 05:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she genuinely think of you as a really good friend one she can have fun convos with and just talk with, without getting serious. i have lots of guy friends that i talk with but just cos she seems to talk to you a lot doesnt necessarily mean that she may think of you more than a friend. sorry :( but it's evident that she enjoys your company and talking with you. :)
2007-10-12 05:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by tropicalia_la 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are friend... i think it is better to see a girl as friend... she will tell you all her secrets cause she is comfortable with you..
you cant force her.. try to keep it cool...
If it hurts you a bit.. just dont answer her calls here and there..
2007-10-12 05:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still young to make up her mind. Do not rush her, at that age she can even show you messages from her alleged BF and expect you to smile about it. Do not rush her I repeat..
2007-10-12 05:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are her back up in case her boyfriend is no more
2007-10-12 05:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋