2007-10-11 21:48:42 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Slide♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. How can you love someone or want to be with someone that doesn't love you. That's CrAzY. Don't you deserve to be with someone that does love you?
2007-10-11 21:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by april_hwth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That’s kind of like a one night stand with your best guy friend you get pregnant and he tells you he doesn’t love you but he will be there for his child and if you need him he’ll always be there. Now think about that situation you must have had some feelings for him weather it be love or not you would feel like the most used person in the world would you really want to love someone that would do that to you?
Form the guy’s point of view
It was a friendship that evolved into to nothing but sex he sees it as a best friend impregnated by him and without a doubt does not see it as love he sees it as made the wrong choices and is caught in a bad situation almost no guy chooses to love the girl he thinks of it as entrapment. This is just an example . you should never have thought you loved that person and should never go on loving them
2007-10-11 22:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cherish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if what your feeling is truly love...you don't really have a choice in the matter - you can't just STOP loving someone. However, no one wants to not have their love reciprocated and it sounds like it is time to try to start the grieving for a lost love process. The sooner the better!
PS
We all will love and not have that love returned. You can't make anyone love you. Just be sure to recognize the difference between the pain of losing a love and the pain of having your love rejected...it is a fine line! Careful!
2007-10-11 21:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Cali Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on your personality. Some will immediately go on back foot and start hating that person but with some it is still love and devotion. For majority, I feel, unrequited love causes heartburn since you cannot help loving him and at the same time can't have him. Slowly you will accept the fact and pain will lessen with time but the intervening period is pure torture.
2007-10-13 18:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by P'quaint! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
If he can't love me back who needs him what is that bull he will always be there for me HA!!!!!!!! I do not need him I can be ok for myself what the heck is the point time to move on fast!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We all deserve love to be loved and give love it takes away from our souls when we love another that could care less I have learned through so many tears and pains over the years its better to be by your self then be with another that does not really care about you!!!!
2007-10-12 05:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. To us all love in itself is unconditional. But we can’t help but to attach these conditions to it – them loving us is one of these conditions we attach. It is not the love bringing us pain but the condition that we attach to it. We avoid pain. So we’d avoid the one we love, as they’d bring us pain. This doesn’t mean we wouldn’t go play with them, just that we wouldn’t call them up and ask them if they wanted to play. Yeah we wouldn’t put any effort into the relationship. Hopefully it dies and our feelings for them dies too. Then again we’re a bit of a masochist so we might do damn well near anything to be with them if only as friends even if it meant constant pain and suffering. Ha Ha Ha Ha AHhhhhh.
2007-10-12 07:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by grey_worms 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do that if you're prepared to feel heartache and misery...
How are you going to feel when he finds the one he loves? Tell him you need distance, until you can move on... Maybe, someday, you can be friends with him, but please don't waste your life on a lost cause, now.
He has made his feelings clear. It hurts, but this is sorta like a bandaid. Stop this relationship quickly. It might be painful, but it's a lot less painful that taking a long time to do it...
2007-10-11 21:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Just a Girl ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice. So yes you can love someone without that love being reciprocated if you want to but ask yourself if this is what you deserve. Am sure there are lotsa people who will want your love, so why give it to someone who doesn't want it?
2007-10-11 22:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand how a person can always 'be' there for someone, and not 'love' them?! That doesn't make sense to me.
2007-10-11 22:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone there is nothing you can do to stop loving them. if they will always be there for you, just be really good friends
2007-10-11 21:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋