Bad week ... on virge of sucide :'( :'( :'(?

Question

ive had such a bad week! nothing seems to be going right. ive had so many people telling me im not good enough and im a waste, my crush started dating another girl, ive had things thrown at me by my dad and doors kicked at me.

i need help badly.. i will speak to friends about. im not far away from commiting sucide. i just want to leave this cruel world :'( :'(
p.s im still a very young girl.

Answer 1

You are still a young girl and you think your life is over with? You need to talk to someone, tell them whats going on...If your dad is hurting you for one, that's wrong and again you need to tell someone.
Please do not think this is all you have in life, there is so much out there you haven't seen or experienced. Understand that not everything goes you way or that everything in life is perfect.
If your life isn't going the way you want it to, its time for a change. Only you can make your life worth living, do not count on someone else for your happiness, this you need to learn.
You can always find a new crush...Tell yourself everyday your a good person and your worthy....I can guarantee there is someone special out there for you and if you end your life, you will never find out who it is....
Just take sometime to figure who you are, what you want out of life and go after your dreams...Only you can do this for you.
Now go get some sleep and relax, tomorrow is another day and life will go on...........

Answer 2

Dear young girl,
Please understand that what you are thinking about can not be undone.It is forever....you may not like where you end up and what if you cant get out of there as easily as you can here?If you are young then focus on learning so you will have power over your own life when you are an adult. Until then when things calm down in your house ask your mom and /dad if you can see the doctor. Tell the doctor how bad you feel and tell your teachers ( the ones you like) that you need some help - some counseling - someone to talk to.
Young or old as the hills no difference a crush, mate,or boyfriend is not a good reason to feel that bad. As for the people telling you you are not good enough ( that's not true.) just smile sweetly and say you were taught by the best ! They may not get it right off,but it will sink in! :) You do however need to let people know how bad you feel - people who care about you and people who would be lost without you will help you find the right way through this.
Good luck young lady, please write us all again and let us know you are alright. We may not "know "you so well but we do care about you.

Answer 3

Does it really matter what other people think of you? Your crush dated another girl, that's his loss! I don't know your situation - sometimes parents can have bad reactions to things and don't know how to say they are sorry once they have responded to a situation.
Just do your best. Do what you know is right. Committing suicide is not the answer. What will this get you? This is the easy way out. Be strong. Look at it this way - you are going thru all of this for a reason. Later on in life maybe you will meet someone that will need a person that will understand what they are going thru just because you have gone thru it. You said it yourself "im still a very young girl", you have alot to look forward to. Your still young to have a "crush" that will be your man for life.
Hang in there! Life will get better! Don't take the easy way out!

Answer 4

Please, sweetie, don't take your life. I know how hard it can be, really I do. When I was a young girl, I used to feel the same way you do, and there was a point in my life where I was beginning to plan my demise. I decided that I would be stronger than the people who constantly tried to bring me down. You know what? I AM a stronger and better person than they. Also, how dare anyone make someone else feel like they don't want to live. I am so glad I stayed with this world! You may feel like you don't have any control over what happens to you because you're young, but you DO!

Be strong, keep looking ahead, try to find the positives in life, and know that your life can and will change for the better. Find someone you can talk to. Go to someone you trust to talk to and help you. Feel free to contact me, okay?

I did it, and so can you. Don't give up your life. You're young and there is so much good still ahead for you.

Answer 5

You know that trying to make your life better is a far better solution than suicide right? I've bad bad seasons where things go wrong everyday for three months...

If you are under peer pressure, you can speak me about it and all your problems (email me at [e-mail]) and I'll try to get you a reply A.S.A.P. Don't worry, I'm likely never going to know who are you in real life so telling a stranger your thoughts is like mooning a stranger on the highway xD. They won't care... What's the worst it can happen?

Start feeling positive... Look at the people in Darfur, Sudan getting shot by Sudanese holicopters, tortured and raped by the genocide soldiers... You're in a far more luckier situation so just be glad in that way a bit.

But of course, if you want to consult me with your problems I'd be glad to help you, one thing that is, you must say everything that had happened, that includes things that you've done probably wrong or something that provoked someone, etc. Nobody's perfect in this world, just relax :D.

I don't know why the hell would anyone suicide; it just makes you retarded. Period.

Answer 6

If you are serious you have to remember that things and situations change. You cannot base your worth on what other people think about you. We all have our faults and life is about learning to improve our lives as time goes on.

Your worth is the same as everyone else. God created You in His image which means we are all very special. You are very special. When you can realize this you will have a different outlook on life. You feel you want to escape to another place to avoid problems but that can only happen in a place called heaven. You are just growing up and people go through similar things. I was told by my father to leave the house if I didn't like what he said to me when I was a lot younger. I left but later we had a better relationship. now we are having even a better relationship. I have lost jobs but then I have got better ones. Life has ups and downs. Time will give you the chance to grow and learn to deal with life better. God bless.
Forget suicide. It is not a solution but a just false trap.

Answer 7

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. In other words, it does not make sense to do something like that when life if going to change in the future.

Why lose all of the good times in the future just because you are having some bad times now. That is whay we have bad times, so that we can appreciate the good ones.

There is a purpose for everything that happens to you. If you give it a chance, you will find out what the purpose was. It may have been to teach you how to deal with something that will happen later in life. It may be to teach you how to advise a friend or your child about something that will be happeing to him or her. There are all kinds of reasons, but don't give up. You are just paying dues for the good times to come, I promise!!! EVERYONE has times like that in their lives!!

Answer 8

dear friend, do not exit out like this. this to shall pass.there is a place that you would not want to go if you choose that route.talk to your parents be bold,tell them what you're going through.there is so much to live for.I know that sounds repetive but it's true.life gets hard sometimes but the things you go through it helps you later and makes you stronger .grow from your experiences be around people that loves you. talking to a friend is always good.please pray I know alot of people don't believe but God is real ,He does love you.you will rise from this,you will see a brighter day.it will pass.be encouraged.you can make it.talk with your schools counselor,some of those people really can help you.I will be praying for you whoever ,wherever you are.

Answer 9

I once felt that way, and I realized by getting help that their were some caring people out there, you should go to the emergency room or call 911 and tell them that you are having suicidal thoughts, nobody is going to laugh at you, they want to help, and they can help you figure out why you are feeling this way, trust me suicide is not the answer, in a few years when you are holding your newborn baby in your arms, you will look back and be glad you didnt commit suicide.

Answer 10

You said it was a bad week, leave that week in the past and move on to the next. Suicide is not the answer babygirl, should you need to converse, please do not hesitate to e-mail me. Know that it isn't the world that is cruel but the people in it, change your acquaintances. Hold your head up, look at the sky, see the blueness, not the clouds, it will be okay, just please stay here on earth. God Bless.