she is in my chem lab and seats beside me...
i have had a huge crush on her and it's a long long story...we havent really talked...we've asked each other a few questions about chem...i have to open up a way to start a conversation...i found her on facebook but im not sure if it's ok...wouldnt that be weird or would she freak out ? (she has the choice of accepting my request or ignoring it) please please help me, i have to talk to her somehow but it's almost impossible to talk to her at college(long story)
2007-10-11 20:15:38 · 17 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say go for it!! ~GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-10-11 20:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by DomDiva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Questions like this crack me up. You are in college which means you are an adult in years but this question makes me think you are about 12. This is 7th grade caliber ****. How about this. Get the balls to just ask her if she'd like to get together some time. How pathetic to add her to facebook in some weird attempt to court her.
Or go ahead and take your non assertive approach while someone with some confidence asks her out before you grow the pubic hair to do it. I may be blunt but come on man. Women like assertive men.
Think of it this way. You are already talking in person and you have a class together why would you need to add her to facebook to ask her out? What this is all about is you are too insecure to ask her out and would use her adding to you on facebook as a sign she likes you. She's talking to you already that means she is interested in you. I'm sure you won't take my advice as I am quite blunt. You'll probably listen to one of the other 19 year old 12 year olds on here.
2007-10-11 20:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by vaccad76 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would definitely add her.She can ignore your request if she wants anyway but she will probably accept and then it will be an easier way for you to say hi all the time and build up a friendship.
2007-10-11 20:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. She has the choice to accept you or not on Facebook. So, give it a try as this is a good way to start communication. Good luck.
2007-10-11 20:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has told you her name, it's okay. If you found out her name some other way, don't do it yet. But it seems like Facebook would be a good way to strike up a friendship.
2007-10-11 20:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an invite with a little message like. "Hey what a trip. I was cruising through Facebook and there you were so I thought i would send you an invite" if she accepts take it from there.
2007-10-11 20:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by shootit247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead if she doesnt what to talk she will block you then you have your answer, but give it a shot, if she is a nice girl it would be fine. you could also say if she asks that you didnt know that you added her, must have pushed the wrong botton
2007-10-11 20:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeaaaaaaa man! internet is a great way to talk to people especially if ur shy, dont have to look them face to face. plus people like having more friends makes them feellll better. just be yourself and you should be fine. anddd if your really feeling good friend her and send her a poke!
2007-10-11 20:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by kundoggydawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Add her it shouldn't be a big deal. Doesn't mean there's anything romantic associated with facebook lol
2007-10-11 20:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, go right ahead. And at least you know if she declines the request of where you stand with her.
2007-10-11 20:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and add her in facebook. There is nothing wrong for friends to add friends. =)
2007-10-11 20:27:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋