my ex text me last week 2 let me know he has my insurancecards n he wants 2 give them back,so i said 2 hold them until today because we had court,n i text him back on monday 2 say id meet him 2 get them back and he brushed me off kinda cuz he was busy. then yesterday he text 2 say sorry for ignoring me n he wanted 2 meet when he knew he would c me this morning.we talked for a few mins n i took off.2day at court he said hi n waved 2 me.n after he talked 2 me for 1/2hour about court n other random stuff on the phone.he told me a few weeks ago that the new girl was a rebound n he never wanted me 2 leave n he always loved me.he doesnt want 2 b some guy i used 2know.well i luv him with all myheart n want to tell himthat if he can get this girl out of OUR house I want 2 make it work, iwill stay here and we can be together until we r ready for me to move home again.It eats me up how much imiss him. Ileft him bcuz he got really distant after our car accident that put us on disability for 3 mns
2007-10-11 20:10:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he would stay gone all day and come home at night and i would get upset with him which made us fight more. before this he was pefect he was everything i ever wanted and i know we fought so bad because we were stuck with eachother for so long because of the accident and i couldnt just give him his space. we had been together for a year and lived together the entire time, i cant sleep eat or thinks traight without him and it has been a month today... should i tell him how i feel? or is he just being civil with me because he doesnt want any drama? which i didnt cause any drama before so that wouldnt make sense...im so confused and tore up about this, what would youdo?
2007-10-11 20:13:23 · update #1
I still think another pushaway like you unavailable for three months would put him back in limbo looking for more like he did.
You can miss what was but he blew it. The fact you are calling the other girl a "rebound" is incongruent to your statement that you were laid up for less than a quarter of a year and he made other arrangements in "your house". He's shallow as hell and you should accept he should have been better at waiting.
This guy isn't long-term bliss. Kiss it goodbye.
2007-10-11 20:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep the EX as an EX move on dont make the mistake twice
2007-10-12 03:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋