2007-10-11 20:03:39 · 18 answers · asked by JR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First give her a warning that if it happens again you will tell him
2007-10-11 20:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Claude 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He will never believe u. It happened 2 me n when I told my best friend, he looked @ me like if I was from another planet. Lost his friendship n respect 4 him. A year later we bumped by accident in the City n told me that he had seen his wife w/ 2 other guys, he asked 4 4giveness...BUT...nothing was the same any more...
PS: when meeting ur friend, do it OUTSIDE his house ALONE. There's no worse blind person than the 1 that don't want 2 c.
2007-10-12 03:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Gambit-Xeneise 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a mess.
But you asked for advice, not admonishment.
I wouldn't tell him. More than likely, he'll read too much into it, you'll lose his friendship and the whole thing will blow sky high. Tell the wife you're not about to compromise your friendship with her husband. "Thanks, but no thanks".
Be careful, though... because there is a useful old saying that applies here about "scorned" women... If you offend her, she might tell her husband you came on to *her* just to spite you!
I have to ask... Did you somehow give this woman a subtle "sign" that you were interested?
Most women who are on the prowl are actively LOOKING for it, before they make a move.
In any case, best of luck to you.
2007-10-12 03:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though I'm sure this question is meant for married males I can at least try to help ya out o.O You can try to be honest with him, saying that you have no interest in his wife (if this is the case) and that nothing happened, or will. =0 Good luck! :)
2007-10-12 03:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because he needs to know how his wife acts and if you know something like this...it's your duty to tell him because he's your best friend.
Call him up or go over to his place, tell him you need to talk, go out and watch the game and a have few drinks. That's more than enough time to just bring it up, especially since he already knows you need to talk to him.
2007-10-12 03:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by A bit young 4 being psychotic 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, don't tell. At best you will be the bearer of sad tidings, and it could get worse than that - its your word against hers, after all. Just forget about it, and pray (for your friend's sake) that she was simply overwhelmed by your personal magnetism and isn't really looking for someone else.
2007-10-12 03:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by laoda 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are an honest person and really care about your friend then you would. But then again, he might or might not believe it. However, you should still tell him. Its possible to let him see or catch her in action or record what she is saying.
2007-10-12 03:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by ashleigh2501 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not tell him because you may lose ur friend ...she can deny and switch things around to your best friend etc. ...and create problems between you and him....LEAVE her alone, because you do not know her ulterior motive etc...and it takes two to tangle!!
2007-10-12 03:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by trop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES if your truly this guys friend you would tell!!!! Also let her know that kind of crap don't fly with you. Your pal might not believe you, but if that's the case then he really isn't your friend. If that's the case loose them all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-12 03:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by ginger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good Bye Best Friend...... No happy ending in this situation.
2007-10-12 03:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Stormy weather 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋