2007-10-11 18:18:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
when you first walk into the room or whatever dont make eye contact with the dog or say anything to the dog. just go sit down somewhere like the dog is not even in the house. let the dog come to you. the dog will come up to you and sniff you but just ignore it for about 30 seconds. then place your hand out in front of the dog let the dog sniff you hand. but dont say anything to the dog. once the dog has dicided to like you then you may gently pet the dog and then tell the dog how good it is. if the dog brings you a toy just pick it up and through it for it. if the dog should jump on you or bark at you when you first enter the dog just ignore it and if the dog jumps on you just slightly put out your knee and the dog will get off. but remeber when you first enter no eye contact and dont say anything to the dog. just like i said above.
2007-10-11 18:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what the dog likes.
When you meet him, why don't you ask your boyfriend if you can give him a treat for a trick, or where he likes to be scratched. It'll not only show your boyfriend that you really care about getting his dog to like you, but it'll tell you how to do so. Some dogs LOVE being rubbed, some love playing (ask what his fav. game is and if you all can play it) and some love treats. Also, some dogs dont love being rubbed...
Approach the dog respectfully, if you already know the dog isnt aggressive, lower your stance, reach out your hand and offer it to him (respecting his space), smile at him and talk happily. Body language and tone of voice is key. Other than that it depends on the dog but getting your boyfriend involved in getting his dog to like you is probably going to come accross extra positive. Its not hard to make dogs love you if you are happy, go-lucky, respectful person.
2007-10-11 18:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by evilfeline007 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you have no negative feelings about the dog,before you get there.I say:don't try too hard.Be yourself, begin at the dog's level ,with slow movements and low tone of voice.Let the dog come to you, almost as if you aren't paying attention.Once the dog knows you're not a threat,you'll be good to go.It makes the more curious when you don't automatically focus right on them as if you need their approval!Maybe learn a little about the breed if you need to before you meet him.If you're not worried,he wont be either!Good luck, hope I helped.
2007-10-11 18:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Skipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the dog sniff you if it doesn't show aggression get to the dogs level. Maybe bring a treat but talk to your boyfriend about that and what he might suggest. let teh dog approach you. Don't force yourself on the dog. Do realize depending on the dog it may take more than one visit for him/her to warm up to you. If you are meeting at the BF house realize he/she may be more territorial, I would suggest meeting in a nutural place the first time.
2007-10-12 00:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kit_kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't approach too fast. Do not approach from the side or back of the dog. When you first meet him, hold your hand out, palm down, and possibly close-fisted for him to smell. I always hold my hand far enough away so that the dog will reach to meet me if he wants to. That way it is on his terms. If he doesn't want to meet me yet, I go back to what I was doing and let him come to me on his own time. Do not be loud. Don't smile showing teeth. They may take it as a sign of aggression. They are hardwired now to ignore it when humans bear their teeth, so they usually just ignore it. Be happy around him...offer to play with him...give him treats...take him to a park....Just basic things like that.
2007-10-11 18:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately see how the BF *introduces* you. When you go to *shake* hands with the dog, gently put your hand under his nose/mouth area so he can smell you before touching you. Talk as you normally would to a child or friend and when the dog seems to give you approval kindly pet his/her head, maybe a tiny ear massage too. Good luck. Animals can be the key to a kind man's heart.
2007-10-11 18:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by tobelove75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
squat to be closer to the dog's level. Put your hand forward in a position to allow the dog to sniff it. this is how dogs meet and greet. It will let you know by body language if it's comfortable with you. If it is, you can pet it.
speak pleasantly to the dog as it sniffs you.
Your boyfriend can help by allowing you to offer the dog it's food dish at the next meal if you are there.
2007-10-11 18:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok first thing i'd do is squat down, dogs will approach you with less caution if you're down at its level this way it will come straight to you with a wagging tail and usually a big lick to the face.... Your boyfriend will be impressed and think wow he/ she likes you..... Then just give him a nice big tummy rub dogs cant resist....Shame its not this easy with the inlaws lol
2007-10-11 18:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance told me how unfriendly his dog was so I started bringing dog treats. I would offer the treat, it took a few tries but eventually he started coming up to me and now he insists on spending time with "mommy"!
2007-10-12 00:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by wintersnight20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you put your hand down... have some treat in it...move slowly...
Always let a dog sniff you.
Hope you don't have your period.
2007-10-11 18:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋