In math someone wrote the name of a guy on the table who happened to be in my class and this boy told him thst i like him in front of the whole claass which he heard and im sort a kind of a nerd so i dont talk to boys much and i actullay do think he is cute but didnt write it how do i get out i i ever wanna get a date with him
2007-10-11 16:19:45 · 6 answers · asked by 1hayhay72 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well honey if he felt the same way about you then he would have said something to you, and he would have asked you for a date. This is the thing, just because you're a "Nerd" doesn't mean you can't talk to people, be pretty and smart at the same time. I'm a hot nerd and I love it. I'm beautiful and smart, and outgoing. I've talked to lots of guys, and I'll continue to do so. You don't have to sacrifice one or the other. If you're shy, there's someone who will like that shyness sweetie, so don't worry. But thinking someone is cute and liking them are two different things, make sure you're sure of which one it is. He may not be "boyfriend material." So be patient. If he feels the same he'll say something. Just worry about yourself. Learn to be comfortabele with yourself. Then when someone comes along, the right one. You'll know how to handle yourself. Have a lot of guy friends, but don't settle down with a boy until you're really ready. Once you give someone you're feelings it's hard to get them back. Being around the opposite sex, is good practice. You know which ones to stay away from and which qualities you like in a man or boy. Take your time. So good luck sweetie!
2007-10-11 16:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. He was flattered and really liked it that someone "liked" him whether you said it to him or not. You must have in somne way let the secret out. So, live with the fact. And quit being so shy. Look up every now and then and speak to people. Most are really nice
. Even the boy who told on you. Just learn to love people andforgive them for whatever they do. Be the most lovng person in the class. Get other people so trusting i you that they will come to you for advice/ knowing that you will keep a secret and you are more mature that nost other girls. Don't get pulled into any undesirable boy/girl relationships just because you trust people and love everyone. Maintain that distance until you are older and can handle leve above the puppy stage. Good luck. God loves you.
2007-10-11 16:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by mrgracey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need come out and first become his friend, talk to him hangout with him, find out every reason that u can to be with him. Once u can be his friend then he will she how great u r .. this doesnt take time (i promise)...if he doesnt have the courage to ask u out then u take the stand and do it yourself maybe if ur shy u can on AIM or the phone or have a friend check in with him. dont worry it will all work out im sure if u really truley want to go out with him then you will!
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2007-10-11 16:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about stuff like this at all for a few years. Don't do any dating until you are at least 16.
2007-10-11 16:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well...if it turns out that he's into you too...just tell him that you didn't do it, but maybe they did you both a favor. ; )
Of course...who knows...maybe he does like you and they already knew and did that to try to get you two together! lol
2007-10-11 16:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its his move now. If he wants to pursue you he will. If not, then it was not meant to be!
2007-10-11 16:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kathi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋