2007-10-11 15:14:09 · 6 answers · asked by Cosette 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Ever hear the old saying, "It's not what you say, it's how you say it"?
Well it rings true when concerning things of this matter. You can tell by their tone of voice. The way people say words is an integral part of nonverbal behavior. Volume, mocking or shakiness can be factors in determining what kind of communication is happening between people. A loud tone of voice can signify confidence and enthusiasm, but at the same time can put fear and dominance into the mind of those who hear .... where as whispering can be used as a comforter.
Take note of how the person is talking to you. It could help you greatly.
With love <3
2007-10-11 15:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♫♪ Jukebox Hero ♪♫ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is there a difference? What is a sincere compliment for, if not to make you feel better?
2007-10-11 22:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by words for the birds 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times you can't tell.
As a rule if you've said something about your ensemble or hair, etc. (as if self-consious) It is most likely meant to make you feel better.
Look at people's facial expressions and body language- that usually is a dead giveaway
2007-10-11 22:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you really cant. BUT why bother, if that person cares enough about you to try to make you feel better it is a nice gesture and should be treated as such! YOu should be flattered that someone cares enough about you to be that concerned about your feelings...
2007-10-11 22:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be really hard to give a complement if you don't mean it. Giving complements is intended to make a person feel good.
2007-10-11 22:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt matter either way if it makes you feel good about you or puts a smile on your face
2007-10-11 22:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by panthor001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋