is it bad to sleep with a guy,.. on the 1st day u meet him or on the 1st date? What do guys think of gal who do ? and can a relationship come out of this ?
2007-10-11 14:54:29 · 15 answers · asked by lalabubbles02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very bad, as it gives the impression that you are easy.
For guys, they are going to ride this as long as they can.
Most relationships of this nature fail, as it appears to be based solely on sex and when that wanes, what then?
2007-10-11 15:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We love it when we get some on the first day/date.
Can it lead to a relationship? Sure. A lasting relationship? Yeah, well, maybe - there's someone out there who's been married 50 years and had sex the first time they met.
It takes time to build a lasting relationship and sex is a part of that relationship, but it cannot be the reason for the relationship. Sex as a basis for a relationship will never last beyond the sex.
For adults here: If you are horny and want a one night stand - go for it. You deserve it and who cares what that guy thinks about it. If you want a relationship, work on relationship things. When it feels right, sex will happen.
2007-10-11 15:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would not respect someone that sleeps with me on the very first date. I can't say if it is bad or not but I can say a relationship could be built from it. Though the relationship probably is not as solid of a relationship as one built on knowing the person. The relationship that would evolve would be more strictly sexual than mental.
2007-10-11 15:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
yull have to look at the guy how is he kool or not funny and serious but sleepin wit him on the first date i dont rally think so. wat eva it is 1st date u shouldnt sleep wit him.. well there is 1 trik i kno u should use if u do fr luch and if he calls the waiter saying shuut shhut run out of da resttorent but he calls the waiter with a wistle stay on and mabe later sleep wit him
thks
suhailz
2007-10-11 15:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the guy might think that you are easy and might expect it from you alot and if he does he could be using you just for the sex. But i would be very careful about making it a relationship....Depends on what kind of guy he is just try to get to know him and if he tries to do it all the time break it off!
2007-10-11 14:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by <3Just So You Know<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily think it is a bad thing, but you probably should not do it. Because there are the guys that will take advantage of you and then just use you for sex.
2007-10-11 14:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yippee?
Certainly not a good way to foster a meaningful relationship. Generally I would figure if she slept with me so easily, she probably did just as easily with plenty of other guys.
2007-10-11 14:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by UNITool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is great , for the guy.
you will never get a relationship out of it.
if you just want sex, do it.
the story about the cow and the free milk is true.
2007-10-11 14:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no affence but i would think yur kinda a slu.t.....dont take me wrong! but ya thats its
sry!!! REALLY SRY
2007-10-11 14:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but you have to be careful and he has to be secure in his self
2007-10-11 15:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by real/one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋