I am 22 yrs old, live on my own - my parents want to know why I think it is ok to have sex with my boyfriend of 2 years. I am currently on non-speaking terms with them, because anytime I see them I get a bible lecture. Am I being wrong?
2007-10-11 14:48:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to add that I think it is ok, and that is why I do it. I don't believe in sleeping around with people you don't know..but in a long term, serious relationship, I think it is ok. But my parents make me feel like a sinner, and I don't think that is fair. I feel that they should respect my choices.
2007-10-11 15:03:00 · update #1
To get the best and truest answer read the following e-book it will give you all you need to know and from a Biblical point of view.
Be sure to start with the Introduction and the forward to fully understand where this is going.
And Good Luck...there is nothing wrong with or about premarital sex. If you want more information please feel free to write me...I have a ton of it written by theologians
2007-10-11 15:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want the best for you. Now because they feel they have nothing in common or feel estranged from you they use what is comfortable to them to connect. In their case Bible lectures. You have to let them know all you want them to do is love, support, and guide you. But they need to know you have to live your own life and make your own choices. But that you will listen to them. They do not have to "preach" to or at you.
As for those choices your faith in Jesus will help guide those. Now you asked on Answers if premarital sex is ok so you must have doubts that it is otherwise you would not have asked. God has someone picked out for you. Somewhere this guy is waiting for you as you are waiting for them. Staying pure is the most precious gift you can give. I hope this helps....
2007-10-11 14:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 22 - and you are an independent woman - just be responsible - use protection. The bible is a crock of... sh... Think of it this way - women who end up cheating are the ones who waited around forever to "give" their virginity to their husbands.
EDIT - Read When God Was a Woman - you'll see that the bible - is just a book. You can lead a moral life without it. I know I do.
2007-10-11 14:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Chupa Cabra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 12:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by merkl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the religious level of christianity, it is wrong. whether you decide to have premarital sex, or not, is up to you and your principles/values. I hope you don't just do it to defy your parents.
2007-10-11 14:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Intuitive B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your parents have premarital sex? If not can they prove it to you? You live your life and tell them to live theirs.
2007-10-11 14:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by sirdouglas527 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see whats wrong with it as long as you know what ur doing and use protection. have fun, go for it, you only live once!
2007-10-11 14:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by mnelson11425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you catholic no you should not. But, this decsion is not up to me. Sorry if i sound too much like your parents.
2007-10-11 14:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jkool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe in it, but its ur choice but i feel that family is more important than sex with your bf gt your priorities straight and do wat u think is rite
2007-10-11 14:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by gf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have sex before marriage!!!
2007-10-11 14:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋