My bestfriend doesnt seem to understand?

Question

ok it seems like everytime i have a bf my bestfriend gets angry with me...Ive finally found the one for me which were getting married next year, but she is like stuck on me like glue, she goes oh on halloween your coming with me to coconut grove, im like wtf? i cant do that im not single...and she starts biitching and gets angry...Me and my man dont go clubbing we dont go to certain places with out eachother, and shes never had a bf and shes a virgin, all she wants to do is go clubbing and do single life things, she doesnt understand that im in a steady relationship and i cant be doing things like that, she acts so immature its annoying, if she had a bf and if she spent allot of time with him and did the things that i do i wouldnt blame her and i wouldnt get mad at her and i do have friends like that so im not just talking ****, it pisses me off that shes like this she has even tried controlling me aswell telling me to leave him or something wth is wrong with her? its like she wants me

to her self and its annoying DAMIT i spend time with her dont get me wrong but *** man she always wants to get into everything even if me and him fight she puts her nose into it im going INSAIN!

Answer 1

Well just like any friend, the girl loves you. Its part of the nature of friendship, don't get all confused on me and think that means she's a liz and whats to get married or have sex. Not the way love works, ether way, what you need to realize is that part of her behavior is also a reflection of how you treat her yourself. In other words, your not being HONEST enough for her to get the message that her behaviour is intolerable. You have a problem with the way she is acting, talk to her about it, only do it from the heart. Not upset, not anger, just maker of fact "Hey friend, I'm in a great relationship here, don't you think thats going to put a strian on yours and mine, relationship? Then give me some understanding and backoff a little, its hard enough as it is." Something to that effect, just speck from your heart to her.....