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This is normal right. The only thing that keeps me going is my husky in the pic. I am 22 years old with multipule operations I Had a pacemaker put in half a year ago. I have horrilbe knees espically my right were the doc told me today there is nothig he can do besides surgery which is not promising. Im sorry to he me crab I know we all have problems. All I need to do is vent.

2007-10-11 11:52:54 · 17 answers · asked by owned by a siberian husky 4 in Health Mental Health

My huband would take care of my dog. I bring him to the dog park about 4 times a week in the morning and at night my husband runs with her a hour. She loves to exercise. But there is no one who can take care of her like I do. I am one of those crazy animal lovers. I do not know who likes the dog park more me or my dog. lol.

2007-10-11 12:00:06 · update #1

Im sorry you have lupus. That sucks.

2007-10-11 12:00:58 · update #2

I wish I was like you smile with a fast metabolsm. Cuz ya, I agree food is awesome.

2007-10-11 12:07:48 · update #3

17 answers

You are not alone and it is normal to feel this way. I have Lupus and several things which have come along with it. I had to give up my dream job and go on disability. Some days I feel as you do, but in the end I plug along. There can always be worse things in a persons life. Venting is healthy and I do my share.

2007-10-11 11:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by emtd65 7 · 0 0

As some one with multiple disabilities and who has also had several surgeries I can empathize with you. I know that some times it's hard to want to continue when it seems like nothing will ever get better. I hope and pray that it will and that some how or another you're able to find some way of finding a reason to keep on going. Having a husband and a dog are good but you need to find some thing just for you something that helps fulfill you. May be you could volunteer at the nearest grammar school to you and tutor the kids that need help or something similar. I was both a tutor at my daughter's school and a Girl scout leader I loved it and the kids learned that you don't have to let disabilities stop you from doing what you want to do with in reason.

2007-10-11 13:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 0 0

Im so sorry if you have lupus. I know its expensive, and most docs just want to give you drugs, but maybe you should find a holistic doc and ask about kileation therapy ,a natural process that works on the immune system. Also there is a product i swear by, glucosomine with condroiten, It works with all the joints and bones, and might have some relief on other problems, it will take some time, but you have to keep taking it, but you have to get info from professional and so to make sure it has no reaction to meds you are taking, dont give up, you are here for a reason!! good luck.

2007-10-11 12:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by zuriel 3 · 0 0

Well you know what, not be mean or anything but I know some people with worse conditions then that and they live like everyone else. Myself I have had 26 surgeries, I had open heart surgery when I was 10! If there is something that can go wrong with your body it has happend to me. and just look at how your life has been up until this point in time everything will get better. I promise you that. Take it one day at a time and live with no regrets. You never know when your number will be called and you will not go until your number is called. So take a positive step toward life today and begin tomorrow as a whole new world, and live like there will be no next day!

2007-10-11 12:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why might they arrive when you at the instant for returned pay on an grownup toddler? shouldn't they have achieved that years and years in the past? My question is who raised this question now? Did your ex gain this with a view to get money FOR the 22 365 days outdated? If the 22 365 days outdated needed money why did not they touch you rather of having the government in contact? What sturdy might that do now?

2016-10-06 12:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by gonzalescordova 4 · 0 0

Keep your head up and don't give up. when I was 26 I was diagnosed with cancer and things looked grim. I was a mess for a while. Chemo, Radiation, multiple surgeries, pneumonia etc... and I really wanted to give up. If I had given up I would not have lived to have my 2 beautiful daughters. At the time I was told that I would not be able to have children.

Don't give up. My faith in God got me through, even on the night I decided to end my life.

2007-10-11 12:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by ladyc 4 · 0 0

strategizing about medical treatment may provide a kind of relief from stress; always describe the technical name of a disease much sympathy comes packaged as utility research

If you liked you could look at how various places have to cover your illness if you are a student; plus school is valuable

Anyway, i've read that different doctors are better than others you could do research on which doctors are best then publicize Medical advocacy may have value

find an MD that makes you as physically comfortable as possible; demand adequate pain medication if applicable

2007-10-11 12:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by Treon V 2 · 0 0

Venting is good!

Dogs are so wonderful and I am glad your husky is there for you.

I'm sorry your doctor had to give you bad news. One thing to remember is that even though there may not be good treatments now, there might be better ones later (I should know; I've been doing health related research since 1990).

2007-10-11 12:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jodie G 5 · 0 0

it must be hard but u can't give up, who would take care of your husky? just take it day to day. maybe try going to church, if not, find someone u can talk to. a friend is sometimes the best thing to have when u are depressed, finaly u may need to be put on some meds to help u cope with your life the way its is. don't worry, its not always gonna be bad.

2007-10-11 12:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by lennymo36 2 · 0 0

you say you have all these things wrong,i wont depress you with all my ailments i would be here all night and it does get you down,but that that lovely dog in your life,you need to you are young and you havnt got anything life threatening,i wish i could have a pace maker to stop my heart racing,you have all your life in front of you,make the most of it,you have lovely dog that you love and he loves you,but you need more than that lovely dog in your life you need to go out with friends and find nd find an interest,i dont know if you can get out if not there things you can do in the house,life is too short make the most of it i know it can be hard and i do understand,and the last thing i would say to you is pull yourself together that is the worst thing anyone can say to someone
you can keep in touch if you need to
all the best

2007-10-11 12:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by meg 4 · 0 0

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