Girl Teen Having Sex with 22 year old male?

Question

Is it ok for a 16 year old girl to have sex with a 22 year old male?

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Answer 1

NOT.The 22 yr old can go to jail.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Hmm. Well you are not a hermaphrodite if you don't have a vagina, or vestiges of one. I'm going to go out on a limb and say there's probably nothing wrong with you, you just didn't get very masculine traits. However, you might want to read up on Klinefelter's Syndrome. This is characterized by lack of male body hair patterns, a female distribution of body fat, small testicles, etc. If you search the internet you can find some pictures of people with this syndrome, and see if you think you have these characteristics. Also, don't just look at pictures, do some reading and see if you think it sounds like you. If after researching this, you think you might have it, go back to your doctor and specifically ask him about this syndrome. If he won't consider the possibility, try a different doctor. After all that, I'll say that I doubt you really have this, because it would be something that runs in your family and it would have normally been diagnosed long ago. But, there's a chance that no one knew about it, so, go ahead and check out the info if you want to. Oh, as far as your friend and his son... I can't speculate as to what is going on there, it sounds like maybe some therapy is needed for the son or both of them ... son should not be doing that in public or private.

Answer 4

It may be legal because she is supposedly 16 - but it does not make it morally right.

This guy seems to be a predator and I cant believe a website (even if it is a pick up site) would allow a story to be put out there like that. Someone should report this to the authorities.
He is bragging about going to the mall and purposefully trying to pick up young girls - he does not even seem to be trying to pick up women of his own age - he talks about wanting to have sex with them as if it is a game. The only reason I can think that an adult male would want to be picking up teenage girls who are still in high school (or of high school age) is to take sexual advantage of them. Not only that, he actually thought she was 13 but still tried to pick her up.

How does he know she is 16 - what because she said so - when I look at our daughters MSN site (yes we have our kids passwords so we can monitor) all of her friends put down that they are 17, 19, etc. Guess what they are all 14. For those reading this who are adults - think back to when you were 14 - what did we want to be more than anything in the world - "cant wait until I am older/18 etc" then I will be able to do anything I want" They are not trying trying to pick up older guys - they are fanatsising about being older with their friends that they allow to enter into MSN chats. They think it is cool to say you are older.

This guy is taking advantage of vulnerable young girls and should be reported. As should the site which thinks it is okay to put such a thing on. I live in Australia so I have no idea who the authorities in Canada are to report this but if someone does - report him and the site. I will leave everyone with this thought: - if you have a 14, 15, 16 year old sister, cousin, friend, neice, granddaughter, daughter would you feel it was okay for an adult to be wanting to pick her up and take her somewhere for sex? If you answer NO then do something about this creep by reporting him to the authorities.

Answer 5

Legally, sometimes, yes. It depends on the age of consent in the state where it happens.
Morally, no. The 16 year old hasn't matured enough to understand the meaning/significance of sex. And the 22 year old should stop thinking with the wrong head, and find a partner his own age!

Answer 6

no! i don't know why any 22 year old man would want to have sex with a 16 year old girl. thats just disgusting! he must not be able to find a real woman.

Answer 7

OMFG!, what nut-case would have sex with a 16year old (non-matured) and, maby haven't even developed all the way!? the 22year old retarted **** can go to jail for sexual harrasment and, also because they're more than 3years apart! hey im 13 and, i don't even want to have sex yet! im waiting until im married,have enough money to pay for my child (if have any),find the "RIGHT" guy and, not just some ***** desperate for sex and will leave me afterwards. And, until jesus christ says im ready. Y'ALL IMMATURED ASSES HAVE ******* ISSUES! damn! here im 13 and, a damn grown man can't even measure the level im on. *Sad*

Answer 8

It depends on the state, but chances are it's illegal.

Edit: That site is hilarious, and that girl has probably been ******* since she was about 12. Why do men act like it's a big deal to get a whore to sleep with them? LOL

Answer 9

What are you some kind of pedifile.I'm quite sure you know the answer to that.What are you trying to do, see how many people will tell that it's ok so you can do it.That is if this question is about you! Is it?

Answer 10

If the girl wants to have sex with this older boy she can although you might want to sit down with her and try talking. Say things like, I'm happy you have found someone you care about and who cares about you but think about what your doing with him if he gets you pregnant your throwing your life away. But most kids dont listen when you try talkign so just try bring it up at a point when she cant storm of like when your in a car alone but try talking to her you can get through to her, and if they break up be supportive just be like dont worry about it.