im not talking about me, but im talking about this other grl who no one wants to talk to cuz she's not pretty. i mean, i dont think she's ugly, but i know other people do.
why do ppl go by looks to be FRIENDS???
2007-10-11 09:47:26 · 15 answers · asked by yahooanswers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because basically people are very vain. They think that if they associate with an "ugly" person, they will think that you are ugly. Why don't you break the ice and befriend her.
2007-10-11 09:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by chase5764 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, guys will talk to 'ugly' girls. In fact, unattractive people are just as much fun to talk to as attractive ones (possibly even more, but that is a whole other topic). What you dont get, is people trying to mate with unattractive people, which can make it look like nobody is talking to them, when if fact it is just a mating issue. Eventually tho, unattractive people get desperate and wind up with other unattractive people for the purposes of love explosions.
I have never seen people go by looks to be friends. Well,, out of High School that is. High School is a very superficial place full of people who feel they need to be cool.
Cool is over-rated.
2007-10-11 09:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by dynastronii 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is human nature to approach the opposite sex if they are attractive. Generally people treat other people differently by their appearance, regardless of what anyone says, everyone does it in a subconscious level. Even as a guy, for some reason i dont have ugly guy friends. its just how it is, although there are alot of guys that talk to ugly girls. Anyways I have a good hunch this question is referring to yourself.
2007-10-11 09:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by crazytrader101 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You ever seen a couple where one person was a 10 and the other person was a 1? And you asked yourself what was the 10 doing with the 1? Why dont you talk about how much you want to date Flava Flav? Ugly people have no sex appeal.
2007-10-11 09:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Probably the same reason girls dont talk to ugly guys.
2007-10-11 09:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those people who don't talk to someone beacuse of their appearance are very shallow people. those kind of people end up with beautiful bags of caca. meaning beautiful on the outside and ugly on the inside.
2007-10-11 09:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by 30 going on 40 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys are just like that. They want to hang around the "cool" crowd. They want to hang with cool people so that they will also be "cool". It's in the humans nature. We were born with it and a lot of people will feel that way.
2007-10-11 09:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by cat_heros@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are strange in many ways. I don't care about the face.I care about the personality and the body. If she is 200lb. perhaps I will pass, but most of the cases, I'm fine with any kind of girl.
2007-10-11 10:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The ones that go by looks are hoping to get laid or start a relationship immediately.
I personally will talk to anyone, looks are not a factor.
2007-10-11 09:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of she'll only be happy that he's chatting together with her. Sorry, that sounded a touch too harsh, did not it? i think of the possibilities of the guy having a huge gamble with the girl are fairly sturdy.
2016-10-06 12:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋