Can guys tell when you are checking them out?

Question

I am always checking guys out but they never seem to notice...
Plus a ton of guys like me and tell me I'm beautiful and things like that, but I never notice any of them staring at me or checking me out...why is that?

Answer 1

It definitely depends on the guy, as you can see from the answers here.

It seems to me like there are several types of guys in this regard.

1. The guy who thinks he's super hot and assumes all girls are checking him out all the time (may or may not be hot).

2. The guy who never thinks anyone is checking him out. (mostly likely inexperienced/shy/low self esteem)

3. The guy who knows that girls check him out, but doesn't assume all of them do. This guy looks for signs you're checking him out but is willing to approach even if you're not.

Depending on which one of the three he is, he'll either not care, not notice, or being looking carefully but act cool if he does notice. The guys complimenting you are typically types 1 and 3.

Or, you could just be really unobservant and

Answer 2

Andre is very, very right, I´m afraid. If you really want to get in touch, especially with some guys, you need to be a bit more pushy... ;)

Plus, be happy if you don´t notice guys staring at you - they often try not to check you out in a way that makes you notice if they don´t intend to ask you out the same moment... that doesn´t mean they don´t. Cause let me tell you, they do.

Answer 3

Guys aren't just clueless. They're gun-shy. Stare at a girl, and you're likely to get yelled at, and perhaps even arrested.

If it appears a girl is checking out a guy, he wonders what's wrong with him, and why she's laughing at him.

The next time a guy tells you that you're beautiful, ask them why he's never tried to get into your pants, why he's never even tried to take you out on a date.

If it were entirely up to men, the human race would die out in three generations. You have to let the guy know that you'd welcome his attentions.

Answer 4

I believe a guy could tell when they're being check out, just like a female can. But if they're not looking back . You not getting any play at all. Good luck though.

Answer 5

If you are being obvious, or if the guy is observant and understanding of the doings, mannerisms, and body-language of females, yes we can. Us guys are just a bit more comfortable with being somewhat obvious, (Credit that to enculturation) but we USUALLY don't just stare with our toungs lolling out of a slack-jawed face, a'la the old cartoons. If you aren't noticing what's going on, then you just don't know what to look for.

Answer 6

I, for one know immediately when a chick is checking me out... but I've also reached a point of self-control where i can play it cool and go along with the game :P
just last week i met a group of ppl and in that group was a girl... she immediately smiled and started to check me out :))
knowledge comes from experience :D

Answer 7

Super Knat, Missy some times we get the feeling. You may not notice us checking you out cause guys have gotten well rehearsed at not letting on, but dear we do !

Answer 8

LOL i cant ever tell!!! its cause girls are very subtle sometimes!! its hard to tell. all the times my fiancee told me she was checking me out, i never noticed at all, maybe 1 or 2 times. LOL

Answer 9

I notice sometimes when chicks check me out. It usually works the other way around though.

Answer 10

yes if you can tell when guys are checking you out why wouldn't they be able to do the same....maybe you just haven't noticed them checking you out