i am using my sisters account but i am a male who has been going out with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years and and she never wants to have sex it was great in the first six months to a year and now we never have sex can anyone give me any explanations as to what you think it could be .
thank you
2007-10-11 09:13:27 · 32 answers · asked by truth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably its getting boaring for her just try new things
2007-10-11 09:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
It's time to make a change. All you can do is move on if a girl gets like that. I lived with a woman 45 years and she only slowed down in the last couple of years for health reasons. It is not normal for a person to stop wanting sex unless there are health problems. Or she has just lost interest in you. I don't understand what yo mean you are using your sisters account?
Good Luck.
2007-10-11 09:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Betty Boop Oop A Doop Atheist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then your question should be "Why doesn't my girlfriend want sex after being together 3 yrs" because her issue doesn't apply to all 3.3 billion females on the planet.
Have you tried asking her what the problem is? We don't know her, or you, so we cannot really know why she no longer desires sex but it's not uncommon for the desire to lessen when couples are together a long time...typically the female will feel less desire, but occasionally it'll be the guy instead.
Talk to her about this and let her know you want things to get spiced back up again. ☺
2007-10-11 09:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get comfortable with each other, and in a stable LOVING relationship, believe it or not sex in not as important as holding hands, or kisses. Sex is an extra at that point. LOVE is priority. Ask her how she feels and put how you feel together and come up with the best answer and try to make the best out of it. But holding her hand and being there for her is more important. Men often expect a woman to "spruce" it up in the room. You could do a lil sprucing yourself, light candles, draw a bath for her. make her feel like you lust her, not wanna jump her bones!
2007-10-11 09:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,you must think sex without love never be existed long time because the more love persists the longer sex exists.Naturally sex without love within 6 monhts easy to be
broken because there is no real love in the life between two
people.
2007-10-11 09:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by vincentbaha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ought to stick with her for another 3½ years to see if things improve. LOL
If she's still with you, then it must be that she doesn't like sex. You know what marriage will be like for the two of you? Sex will happen...but it'll be on the third Saturday of the month between 8:35-8:55pm, wearing socks and the bedroom lights are on. She'll always want the missionary position, never be creative, probably need KY because she just feels nothing about sex.
2007-10-11 09:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mike T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, i was with a guy for about 4 years and around our 3 year mark i never wanted to have sex either. its because when you first get together its like magic, then you know that this person is always gonna be here so why do it to much. it kind of gets old. maybe you should try giving her gifts and pleasing her more
2007-10-11 09:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by jrnhsbabe8969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex for women is more emotional than for men. If she feels like you dont pay enough attention to her in other aspects then she may not want to have sex. If you have been together for 3 years you should be able to talk to her about this and her to you, just simply ask her what is wrong, if something is bothering her.
2007-10-11 09:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women use sex as currency.
They know if they just give it up they can't use it to get more stuff out of the guy.
They will even hint that you might get some if you do what they want and then back out of hte deal.
They will say flat out if you get me this I will do that and then still back out.
Sex is power and they only way to get more is to stop give them what they want.
2007-10-11 09:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being 'the man'??
If she is not intrested in having sex with you, it may be because YOU are not romancing her. Men get turned on by sight----but ladies get turned on by making out and being touched. It gets even better for her if you touch everything but the 'cash and prizes' for at least ten minutes--- which will make her want you even more (to touch her 'cash and prizes'!)
Be the man!
2007-10-11 09:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Rev. Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats easy dude... make her feel like a woman again... do the little things that count... I would bet your taking her for granted a little... and your not being romantic or showing her the affection she needs... if you need to know anything.... men need sex, women need attention and affection...
dude buy her a flower for no reason.. its the little things like that that mean the most... trust me..
and dont be afraid to change it up in the bedroom a bit.... if ya need to chat message me... its not that difficult...
2007-10-11 09:21:09 · answer #11 · answered by denunz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋