Should i tell him or her that they r spending too much time together? or should i wait until they break up? (which i HOPE is soon.) He never has time for me anymore. Should I say something?
2007-10-11 08:56:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they just started dating they will want to be together all the time. Even if they have been together awhile they may be that type of lovey dovey couple. They are just becoming more intimate with one another by spending quality time.
What's this about them breaking up? If he is happy with her why would you say that. You should be happy for him. Sounds like you kind of like him or have strong feeling for him. If you too are close, just tell him that you haven't seen much of him and would like to hang out. Don't say anything negative about the relationship, that would cause him to tune you out.
2007-10-11 09:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy for him!
Just think about it
He really likes/loves someone and you should be pleased for him
But then if he's your best guy friend then you should be able to talk to him about things so to be honest, i'd just say one thing to him like 'I miss spending time with you like i used to :(' but just accept that now he has a gf, she will be taking up quite a lot of his time because he'll want to spend time with her because she'll be the person he's always thinking about and missing.
Just talk to him
And i'm sure he's free at some point so just ask him to hang out one day at the weekend, if he says he's spending time with his girlfriend then just say 'please, i'm your best girl mate and i miss spending time with you the way i used to, i'm sure you can make some time to see me.'
2007-10-11 09:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by x_theblackparade_x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you a question.Are you out of your mind?.You can't wish something bad to someone,you can't react like a second grade child either.You must see the new relationship with positive eyes and let the stupid ideas in the closet.Soon you are going to have someone too and the matter will be normal for you.Try to get someone, don't be alone and use the thinking for something positive.
2007-10-11 09:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. He has a girlfriend now. Everything changes when that happens. When people are in a couple, they tend to spend most of their time with that person. Just the nature of the beast.
2007-10-11 09:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see, this is one of the reasons guys can't really get away with having female friends.
Think about how much he's going to hear about it if he starts saying "Sorry Sally, I can't hang out with you tonight, I'm going to a movie with Jill"
Do you really think you'd be happy with your boyfriend blowing you off to go hang out with some other girl?
You're a friend, she's a girlfriend. Girlfriends out rank female friends all the time. If you really wanted to spend that much time with him, you should have dated him yourself.
2007-10-11 09:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Xeno 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship had just recently started, I'd think thats normal. It doesn't hurt though to mention or hint if he could spend time with his friends too or something like that.
2007-10-11 09:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sense 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohh boy i wouldnt want u as a friend
how r u going to get in the way of ur friends happiness
dont worry u will be in his shoes one day and u r not going to realize that u r neglecting ur friends
true friends r not selfish and should only wish the best for there friend
word up
2007-10-11 09:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by simple J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u go to ur guy friend and tell him that he needs to spend more time with u, the next thing we know... ur bff is posting a question, "is she being jealous??" so yea... i thinkk u shud let them be the way they are.. u shud be happy for ur friend. if u DO need some time, u can just tell him that he needs to balance his time. plus its a new relationship.. he needs some time to balance between his friends and gf.
2007-10-11 09:08:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one million.i think of adult adult males stay in touch with their exes because of the fact they as quickly as cherished them or nonetheless like them, that's greater valuable to be buddies than to hate somebody 2.sure 3. no if a guy is head over heels in love he shouldn't flirt with different ladies 4.yea that's irrelevant he could desire to in common terms see you as a chum that they had reliable thoughts with you and go with to proceed to be touch reason they think of you're a brilliant individual and don't go with to lose you
2016-12-14 14:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something to your friend about wishing you could spend more time with him.
2007-10-11 08:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋