I am hosting a bridal shower at my house at the begining of December (still have a while) but I live on a cul-de-sac where the curb in front of my house is pretty narrow. I know we will have quite a few cars and my driveway is not very long, so I know that it is probable that people will park infront of other houses.
I wanted to mention to my neighbors (atleast next door) that I would be hosting this bridal shower and ask if it is ok for people to park infront of there house. And mention that is it a short party (2 hours or so). Of corse if they say "no," I will make sure no one parks there and if they do, tell them to feel free to come over and tell me and I would take care of it.
Do you think that is a good idea? Or a waste of time. I know I would appreciate it. Should I bake something small (cookies) and bring over also to be polite? Thanks!
2007-10-11 08:05:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think that asking/advising them is a great idea. You, however, have no obligation to do so. Assuming it is a public street, people have no right to restrict who can park in front of their houses. Blocking driveways, fire hydrants, etc. is another story entirely.
That said though, it is a very curteous act to inform them in advance. The small token (cookies) is nice as well.
2007-10-11 11:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mark D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say for one party it's probably not a big deal, unless you know that your neighbors usually park in front of their houses and will be planning to park there. You might inform your neighbors that you are planning to have a party and what times, but since a bridal shower is unlikely to be loud or disturbing, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Cookies are not necessary, I would think.
2007-10-11 21:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, good idea, not a waste of time. Looks like you've already thought of everything, even the cookies. Although cookies are not needed, it's really your decision. Have a good bridal shower :)
2007-10-11 15:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy ♥ - semi retired :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea to ask your neighbors. It's very polite to ask, and promotes being respectful of one another. Most people are very accommodating if you ask!
I also think giving them a small token of appreciation, like cookies, is a very nice touch.
2007-10-11 15:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by chemicalhal0 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to bake the cookies right off, but otherwise I'm sure your consideration would be much appreciated. Maybe you can bake the cookies after the event to say thank you if they are co-operative about the parking.
2007-10-11 15:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by aliantha2004 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What a considerate neighbor. Be sure to especially check if there are any neighbors who would need EMT services, and that driveways or street numbers aren't covered.
Your neighbors will welcome such a friendly overture from you I'm sure.
As for cookies or treats, I don't think it would be necessary.
2007-10-11 15:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by silly_me 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea to tell them about it beforehand. If you wait until their driveways are blocked, then they'll be pissed. And a bribe never hurts. I think I would also remind them about a week ahead of time too.
2007-10-11 15:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Debbie Queen of All ♥ 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
They don't own the street so why can't people park out front??
2007-10-11 15:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Diana A 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes it's a very good idea. courtesy is always appreciated. cookies would make them like you more as a neighbor...it's a nice touch.
2007-10-11 15:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by yohmama1111 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋