me 19 and my boyfriend 21 have been together 5years, we started having se.x 3months into the relationship and since then we have had sex on average 10 -11 times a week. talking about sex with friends this came up and they couldnt believe me they even said that it was unhealthy i no thats not true but do you think were having too much sex is this wrong or are my friends just being prudish? why are they saying this to me? also my guy mates think this is great so is it maybe just a girl thing to thinks its wrong. its with 1 guy so its not like im sleeping around.
2007-10-11 08:05:26 · 23 answers · asked by estrellita 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanx for all your replys i feel better. my relationship is amazing and no its not just based on sex we are best friends and plan on being together forever. i agree my friends are prob just jelous thanx everyone
2007-10-11 09:10:03 · update #1
Yeah your friends are crazy. That sounds awesome! The only way you could be having too much sex is if it's the premise of your relationship and you have a sexual addiction together. But since you've been together for 5 years, it sounds like you are good friends who are also very attracted to each other.
2007-10-11 08:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a very healthy sexual relationship. Do you have time to talk and to know each other? If you are happy then that is what matters. I would say that it sounds like you relationship is all psychical and relationships based on sex rarely last. I hope you are the exception or that your not based on a love of his wanker. My wife and i only go at it about that much in a year now. When we got together we would get at least 6 times in a weekend - Friday night, Saturday morning, sat afternoon, sat night, sun morn, sun afternoon and if we could Sunday night before she went home. I was stationed in Japan and she live about 3 hours aways by train. So I think that your relationship is great if there is more than just sex.
2007-10-11 15:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mike E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl friends are saying that you're having too much sex because it sounds like alot of sex and they are probably thinking that he just wants sex (even if its been a long relationship). They could be prudes also. Of course your guy friends think its great. I say there is nothing wrong with it, it just means the both of you have a healthy sexual appetite. I would slow it down a little though. I mean there will be a time when it will slow down and you'll start to think something is wrong. But hey until then, ENJOY!
2007-10-11 15:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats normal. People have way more sex than that. When me and my boyfriend of five years first got together we have sex about 4 to 5 times daily. Don't worry about a thing...the only question I have is how, after 5 years, do you still have sex that often???? Seriously.
2007-10-11 15:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by anon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is lees then twice a day. if you only see each other one day a week that is less then once an hour for a 16 hour day.
no where near too much.
but, you should realize that most guys do not get that much, you should make make sure you remind the guy of this often, make sure he takes care of you.
and be careful if you leave him, most guys cant keep up and they will treat you like a freak. only give it all to a guy you know can handle it. find the right guy.
as for girlfriends, sadly, most women see sex as something they do for the guy. they see it as a weapon to control the guy. so, most women dont get that much because they dont give that much.
2007-10-11 15:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not "unhealthy" at all. Well, the only thing about it that I can even consider being unhealthy at all is that it is probably unhealthy for your relationship just because it seems dependant on sex. Other than that, I don't see a problem with it.
2007-10-11 15:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysremembertwentytwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read before that it isnt good for your body to have sex to often that why most people have se the most 5 times a week your body needs a break and if your having that much sex imagine what your ******** is gonna be like in two years. no where near tight
2007-10-11 15:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you do not have a problem with it then you are doing just fine. Maybe those other girls are jealous because they do not know how to do it right or else their boyfriends are not "hitting" it right. Have fun !!!
2007-10-11 15:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by orcarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your GFs are jeolous because you must be completely happy with your BF to have intercoarse that often after that long. Do what you do girl!!!
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2007-10-11 15:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are happy--and you seem to be--what else is there to consider. Of course sex is not wrong.
2007-10-11 15:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋