Alright so I'm like 12 and theres this really cute guy we've been going out for like 1 week and i've been kinda shy cause hes my frist real boyfriend and it kinda seems like a bet because we hugged on the first day 5 min after i said yes and and like 3 different times people told me that he wanted to break up but he didnt and like i said we've been going out like 1 week and he called me yesturday to ask me if i would make out with him and like i said no and then he broke up with me and called later saying he was sorry and HE was going to kiss me not make out but just a kiss on the lips and like i feel really confused because he's going fast and i dont want to kiss him or for him to kiss me and it feels like it's a bet but it might not be and i have no idea what do do HELP ME PLEASE! : (
2007-10-11 07:31:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do something you don't want to do...
2007-10-11 07:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you that you are too young for kissing, .....so I won't.
My daddy used to tell me, "Son, don't ever kiss anyone that you would not date, and never date anyone you would not marry. So, that means don't kiss anyone that you would not marry.
You are 12, so marrying is out of the question. I was more impressed with the girls that would not let me kiss them, than I was with the girls who would let me kiss them. The girls that would let me, would let some other boys as well, and I really didn't like that. So.your conscious is telling you no, and that is what you need to say. There is nothing wrong with saying,
"I really don't want to do that(kiss), but I really do like you a lot.
If he is unhappy with that, then you are probably better off without him. Good Luck.
2007-10-11 10:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be with anyone at your age.. wait till you're 16.. instead focus on school
2007-10-11 08:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by gabsters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋