I'm a sophomore in college and I lived on campus last year, so I've already made friends and everything, which makes it hard to leave, but I live only about 30 minutes away, so I would still be able to commute to school.
2007-10-11 07:08:20 · 20 answers · asked by katemonster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In that respect.......you are only 30 minutes away. My daughter commuted 1 1/2 years to the University where she attended. It took her approx. 1hr+ to drive one way, every day. You can do it!!
Also, talk with your sister to see what "she" would like you to do. Maybe it's against her good wishes for you. Maybe she would want you to continue the way you are....on campus, with visits home when she/you need the visits.
Of course, I believe in my heart that she will want you near her. It's called sisterly love. Family is so important. What you decide is what you will need to live with................and,
The big thing is to see how she "feels". Just the fact that you aren't that far from school may make the whole decision an easier one for the both of you. This way, you can be with her, and attend school when you can get there.
My deepest sympathy, and I will pray a good prayer for her, you, and your family. Be strong honey. Keep your studies up, and continue what you are already doing, and don't quit. That will give you something to hold onto. Many blessings.
2007-10-11 07:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Pilot ~ canine son! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-22 01:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you had better believe it! The people we love, especially our family members who are dying and going to be leaving us should be around us as much as possible before they pass away. We only live once in this life. Once it's over..it's over. You will never have the opportunity to see them again. I would drop everything in a second flat to be with my loved one. College or anything else for that matter will be there later on. Show your sister that you love her and you will be there no matter what. Life will go on for you without her in the future but she, unfortunately, will not get to go on. Don't create any regrets. Go be with your dear sister as long as you can be. So sorry to hear of this. My prayers are with you.
2007-10-11 08:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by SeaMistress 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I would move back home because family means so much to me. I know it is important to have friends but family comes first. Would you want your sister to be with you if the tables were turned? Good Luck and I hope everything turns out ok for your family!!
2007-10-11 07:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by lvbrdy4vr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm surprised @ your question! Although I do not know your family situation I believe it would be in your best interest to move back and be with your sister. If her time is limited, your support is probably needed by her! I'm sure she's dealing with alot and could use all the support she can!
If you choose not to, you may someday regret your decision and would have to live with it always!
Good luck and God Bless!
2007-10-11 07:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you live only 30 minutes away? move home and commute. take advantage of time with your sis. you always go back to school. you can never get back time with your sis. my mom passed away from cancer. i treasure every single second i got to spend with her.
2007-10-12 18:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by trace 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be yes or no.
Yes to be with her and by her side, but is that what she wants for you? She may truly want you to stay in school and she could possibly feel blame if you were to leave school to be by her side.
You should approach this subject with her casually...maybe say something like you've been thinking of transferring to be closer to home...you don't have to give reasons but if she asks tell her. See what she says.
I think if I were in your sisters place, I would want to know you would do that for me, but I would not want you to leave school.
2007-10-11 07:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have answered your own question. Even so, college can be put on hold if it must. Your sister has only time left so fill it with all the adoration you can put toward her.
2007-10-11 08:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by fierce beard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay in my opion you should. because one day she isn't going to be here. she is going to be gone and never come back and you wont have a choice to move away from your friends. you can always make friends. nobody can make this decision but you. i drive 2 houres every weekend to see my sister because there is that one weekend when i wont beable to do that and she wont be here. but good luck with your choice.
2007-10-11 07:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES. Especially since for you moving home doesn't mean quitting school.
2007-10-11 07:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋