I'm 20 years old in college and I had 6 sexual partners. 3 out of the 6 of the partners, at the BEGINNING(only) of the relationship it was difficult to obtain a erection. But after a while, i got comfortable enough to easily obtain about 2 weeks of the relationship. I'm nervous because I just got a new girl friend, and she wants to have sex and i'm so nervous that when i get in bed that'll i'll have problems obtaining or keeping one. What should I do? How can i avoid having that problem?
2007-10-11 03:41:38 · 4 answers · asked by DVS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is nerves. You need to find a way to get over the stress of it all and it may be that you will just have to try
However there are some strategies you may wish to consider.
a) Discuss it with her. You are going to be sleeping together so you must be close right? Explain that it is nerves and the discussion may help alleviate that.
b) Creative visualization. Go through the entire process in your mind and imagine it as a successful love making session. Do this more than a few times.
c) The M word but imagine her. Again a successful lovemaking session only she is not actually present but you are still actually physically going through the process.
Good Luck
2007-10-11 03:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by tantalite 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u cant get it up tell her u are not after her body u believe one should not have sex till they are in love u are old fashoned and cant just hop into bed just like that wait 2 weeks till u can get it up then scr w her brains out
2007-10-11 10:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about it... that's what's causing the problem.
Think about what you're going to do..........and it will be up in no time.
2007-10-11 10:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe bc u think too much, but just buy a viagra pill
2007-10-11 10:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mike luc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋