oh when i was walking in the hallways i was checking this girl out from behind so looked so fine....nice butt and everything......then when i get alittle bit closer....i find out its my cousin! I said hey whats up.....and left rushing to my class....
I freaked I WAS CHECKING OUT MY COUSIN! and i was liking it....until i found out it was her! IS IT WRONG or can i be forgiving bc it was a mistake?
2007-10-11 02:32:11 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you were grossed out when you found out it was your cousin you are ok. Now if you still where checking her out after you found out she is your cousin, that would be gross.
2007-10-11 02:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Alex J 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The point wasn't was it wrong for you to check out someone who turned out to be your cousin when you didn't realize it, but that you should now realize that those women whose butts you are looking at are all, in fact, someone's cousin. They have human characteristics and personalities attached to those butts. In other words, focusing on a woman's body part is the problem, not the fact that this particular person was related to you. I'm not saying that you can't appreciate a nice body, but realize that the body is ALWAYS part of a complete human being.
2007-10-11 02:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by neniaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a mistake. Don't worry about it - the important thing is that you realized and went ewwww. Don't sweat it.
Actually, it's illegal/restricted to marry your first cousin in 31 states (gathered this using a quick google search). 2nd cousins are AOK (but I don't think most genealogists would reccomend it).
However, in your case, you're perfectly normal...listen to the other girls on here too, they're all right.
2007-10-11 02:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by artteacher57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No big deal!!! You didn't realize it was your cousin! It's not like you knew it was her! But now you know how other guys look at her - so keep an eye out for her. You are a good guy!
2007-10-11 02:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by anniecl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your cousin has a nice butt. As long as it freaked you out when you found out I think you're okay.
2007-10-11 02:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by shellshell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big deal so you think your cousin has a nice butt. I have a cousin who I think is hot. Its not like you were hitting on her, knowing that your related.
2007-10-11 02:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! You didn't know it was your cousin. I had a gorgeous cousin! I was happy and proud that he was in my family. I loved talking to him and if I felt attracted to him, I would never have acted on it, just enjoyed spending time with a beautiful family member. Be happy that she's pretty and that she respresents your family well and don't feel bad for being human, you didn't even know it was her.
2007-10-11 02:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem there. When you realized it was your cousin your interest dropped. There is nothing to forgive. Sorta like waving at a passerby because you thought it was a friend and then realized you didn't know them.
2007-10-11 02:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by wendy a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That what u get for looking at girls butt. Get over it u are human, and it should be a good laugh for u and your cousin.
2007-10-11 02:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a mnistake, no big deal. men are visual creatures, you see something you like and go for it... or in your case stare... although you may feel gross about it cause it was your cousin, you didnt know and thoiught it was some random girl with a nice butt....
2007-10-11 02:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Bella Latina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋