we've been togerher for three years now but i never know that he is having another gf until one day he was sick and his friend call me and told me that he is sick then i decided to call him but i was out of units then i just pick up ma bag and go there the moment i enter at his apartment i met his friends sitting out side i just say hai to them and pass the moment i enter the house i SAW HIM LYING WITH ANOTHER GIRL.i just go strate to him and ask him how is da body he told me i'm fine now i sit there for about 5 minuites and go.
by the time i left the house he call me i off ma phone the following day he explain it to his sister and she call me wat he explain is this girl follow me for almost 9 months i always tell her i'm having a gf and she is da one i love da girl say she didn't care.
i didn't listen to that but every day his family members will call me and say let me forgive him it will never happen again which i did but he didn't belive wat should i do now please help me.
2007-10-11 00:39:37 · 4 answers · asked by isa babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he can't believe that YOU forgive him, it's because he hasn't forgiven HIMSELF
2007-10-11 00:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't up to you to do anything, it is up to him to be honest, and he is the one that was messing around not you. It is up to him to show he is being faithful. After three years, he should be making a commitment to you, Oh, and by the way, if he didn't want the other girl, he wouldn't have had her in his room, he would have told her to leave, in no uncertain terms, that is what he would expect you to do if it was a boy chasing you. So it is up to him to take care of this mess not you.
2007-10-11 07:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him very much, give him another chance. If you're afraid of getting betrayed again, then don't. If you're brave enough to face those painful feelings that you have when you saw him that moment, then giving him the 2ND chance may help both of you,
2007-10-11 07:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Nothin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and the two didn't stood up when you saw them together in bed?.. just leave the guy.. he's just a boyfriend not your husband...
2007-10-11 07:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by [275] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋