hey
look i did something really really stupid and i stripped for a guy in my class over webcam. but i didn't know he taped it on his phone till after it had been done. i asked him to delete it but he wouldnt. now other people at school know. and his best mate also has the video!!!!!!!!
i know its my own fault for doing it in the first place but now i dont know what to do. help????
2007-10-10 17:23:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay some more info for you all
me and the guy are both fourteen.
i cant tell my rents escpecially not my mum they would be sooooo disgusted with me. thatnks so much for your help so far but please keep em comin.
i cant go to the cops coz then my rents would have to find out....
2007-10-10 17:32:50 · update #1
If he does show it, go to the principal, your parents, and his parents. In fact, go to your parents, now. They should be able to get it back from that little jerk. Don't do this or anything you'd be ashamed to let your parents and friends know again.
2007-10-10 17:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by h1u4sxda 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wish I was the one you were stripping for lol JK
Well what he did is stupid, ,and what you did is too, so now you roughly have to pay for the consequences.
Well you should threat him, if he doesn't delete it and stop showing it to people, you'll sue him, and he'l have to pay you.
But be careful, because with Bluetooth on cellphonesm, he's probably sent the video to everyone he knows, so even if you do sue him, a lot of other people will already have your video unfortunately.
I feel really bad for you, bc that is a stab in the back, but you shouldn't have done that for him in the first place. You do the crime, you pay your time sweety
Good luck....but this will defintely ruin your reputation hun.
Sorry
2007-10-11 00:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Gwen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know that if something takes action in your own property you are allowed to record/tape..with or without the other person's permission, but if you are in someone else's place permission has to be given, now this was through webcam so im not sure about that.
However, im sure you can talk to the principal (embarressing i know), but tell him what you did, and the boy recorded it and is giving it around to other people in the school.
He will have to be responsible now that he knows to stop the boys for giving this out.
Also, i had a similar thing happen in my school , it didnt include me though.
This girl was in the bed masturbating and the guy she was "showing off " for took pictures, the pictures were all over the school, and ofcourse the girl got critism and judgement, people laughing at her, poor girl ended up living school. But after a month or so everyone was like " thats so yesterday" attitude and they found something else to talk about.
I know its not nice and school sucks when stuff like this happens.
I hope it all turns out alright with you, and i hope you've learnt your lesson and never do that again.
2007-10-11 00:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ay your in a real jam. depending on how old you are there's different things you can do. If you're not 18 yet see if you can get some kind of subtle and quiet law action into the matter. If not you and your friends need to get planning to get that video away from those guys and fast before there are any more duplicates!! Try to calm down though if you don't you won't think clearly. I'm sorry for you and good luck!
2007-10-11 00:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jaroo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Keep your head up. Don't feed into it. Act like it doesn't bother you,even if it do. Let them know , so what I did it and that's my business. Flip the script. Eventually something else will come up about someone else and the focus will be off you. I learned that what ever we do don't be ashamed of it(just in case it do get out) and if it do get out, I just reply," so what, I'm grown. That's my business. People then leave me alone.
2007-10-11 00:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by sharonbalto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that's horrible! that has got to be the worst thing that could ever happen.
if you're a minor, contact law enforcement and tell them everything that happened. that will probably be really mortifying and you dont wanna do it, but this honeslty would be the best thing.
also, hold your head up. people are gonna be talking **** but just learn from this experience and stay classy and take the high road
hope everything works out!
xo
2007-10-11 00:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, there is really not much we can do for you on here.
You made a bad choice, and now you are going to have to put up with the embarrassment and the consequences.
I hope that this turns into a good learning experience for you.
2007-10-11 00:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You just have to wait it out. There is no way you can delete it from every single persons phone who has it. I'm sorry. Alot of my friends have done stuff like that threw picture messages but you just have to learn from it and move on! Im sorry that this happened to you . I know how bad it sucks. Just don't do it again, and don't think just because you like him that he is trustworthy!
2007-10-11 00:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle (: 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's illegal- he shouldn't have done it. report it to authorities. It's awkward I understand, but recording without permission I'm sure is violating some kind of law.
If you're a minor (under 18) it is definitely illegal. All pornography state that their actors and actresses are over 18 at the time of filming.
2007-10-11 00:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by HoHosareSICK 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
well thats what you get for being a stupid hoe. you should learn to think for yourself rather than do whatever a guy tells you to. personally, i prefer girls like you though. i can tell them whatever i want to. you should either start having sex with everyone at school and degrade yourself even further, or change schools
2007-10-11 00:34:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋