so this guy sometimes seems like he likes me but doesnt think i like him...other times he seems like he knows i like him but doesnt like me and is annoyed w/ me (like cause hes shy or annoyed he 'runs away' from me like hes scared to be around me....idk if its like "I dont know what to say!!" or "Jeez doesnt she get that i dont like her?!?!?" but n e ways we have a couple mutual friends but we've never really talked but im sure his friends tease him about me...but what should i do? like i want to prove him wrong on whichever one he thinks. like if he likes me i want him to think i like him but if he doesnt i want him to think i dont you know? is there n e way to do that?? or do you think its neither and its just his friends teasing him about me because they can so i should just move on? but i like him a lot hes really cool and cute and nice and all that. so what should i do??
2007-10-10 17:15:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no the thing is hes really shy like his friends and him none of them dance at dances and i've never seen him talking to n e but his good friends (though he always response when you talk to him) let alone a girl lol and no hes not gay.
2007-10-10 17:21:17 · update #1
I think you are trying too hard to figure out your friend's attitude and what other people will say. Talk to the guy.
2007-10-10 17:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by cattbarf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had something like that once.. where the guy just didn't know what the heck to do, so he ran away whenever I was around. Ended up that he actually liked me, but it took a while for me to find out. I'd say try to find out through the "grapevine" aka your mutual friends, whether or not he likes you. Don't do it in an obvious way (unless you want to), but do it. Maybe you can throw a mini get together, like pizza and DVD's at your house, or invite a couple people to go bowling, etc., and ask one of your friends to invite him along. Or better yet, you invite him yourself. Some guys are way shy.. either way, you'll know whether or not he's into you. A casual group hangout where you personally invite him shouldn't show him that you're way desperate or anything.. but if he likes you, he'll hopefully come along. If not, maybe he's just a) really shy and just NEVER gonna get over it anytime soon (which can happen, trust me), or b) interested in someone else. If it's either A or B, that's ok girl, it happens to the best of us. Just because someone doesn't like you in that way, doesn't mean it's YOU. 99% of the time, it's them (like they like someone else, they're not ready for a relationship, etc.). BUT you'll never know until you try to find out.. If you're 14, 15 and above, I'd say go for this plan. If you're under.. just wait it out. Be friends.. girls mature faster than guys, really.. just give it some time, and enjoy your carefree days while you can. :o) Good luck!
2007-10-11 00:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Emo B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you like and what you want.
Invite him to spend some time with you.
Then be patient about how he reacts or how fast he reacts.
And at the same time, immediately find someone else you like and do the same thing, so you're not let down if your boy can't face his friends.
He might be foolish like I was. I avoided a girl I liked because of my friend's criticism. Ask him if this is true and tell him he'd better get wise or he will never be a leader but only a follower, and never get the girl he wants.
2007-10-11 00:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. Or if he likes you. Or get a friend to do it if you're too shy. You could even say something like, "I had a dream we were going out, weird, huh?" and judge his reaction. If he blushes or kinda smiles, he probably likes you. If he laughs it off or seems weirded out by it, he probably doesn't.
2007-10-11 00:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kat* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U HAVE FRIENDS IN COMMON, START A CONVERSATION WHEN HE'S ALONE. ASK HIM ABOUT ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS OR SOMETHIN. SEE HOW HE REACTS, AND IF THINGS LOOK GOOD TELL HIM YOU'LL LET HIM BUY YOU A COFFEE OR LUNCH SOMEDAY. IF NOT, AND YOU SENSE HES JUST TRYING TO GET U OFF HIS BACK, TELL HIM TO TELL YOUR FRIEND YOU NEED TO SEE HIM AND LEAVE.
2007-10-11 00:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by mech9x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must be getting very old cause like I don't know what the hell you are talking about like
2007-10-11 00:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by mosquitobill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like he likes you to me! Find someone who is kind, available, likes you, and respects you. What you see is what you get. Move on.
2007-10-11 00:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by lilly101200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and be cool and wait for him to come to you.
2007-10-11 00:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by sharonbalto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him, you won't die if he says no . just try i know its scary but see if you can take the step.
2007-10-11 00:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Yellow wall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...he likes you...!
2007-10-11 00:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋