I Seriously Need Some Help!?

Question

don't laugh, but I bought this ebook on how to get your ex back. I'm still very much in love with my ex boyfriend. anyway, it says A LOT...a whole month long plan, but at the end it talks about THE CONVERSATION, where you ask your ex to get back together...this is what it says:

There is a specific way to approach getting back together that
seems to work well.
Remember,this is only to be used after 2-3 months of fun dating.
First, wait for some kind of really good connection between the
two of you.Then, wait a split second and say "[Ex's name], We were really
good together, weren't we?" DON'T SAY ANYTHING! There will be an awkward pause and you will be tempted to fill it by saying something else to reduce the tension... DON'T!"

The problem is I'm afraid my ex will be like "No we weren't good together, we fought all the time." However he was in love with me. This question is just worded wrong for my situation. Is there a better way to word it/better question for my situation?

Answer 1

Yea theirs time I've remind of the conflict when we were together, but when things went good the love showed thru. We can find away to work thru the conflict "(ex's name)" but we can't forsake that kind of love can we?" pause.


Something to that effect. Mention the fighting, its not going to hurt anything, but do it with reflections of the good to. Also add how you've guys have changed and learned from this experience. Hindsight is 20/20 so you can learn and be stronger, something NEW relatinoships take time to have. So remind him not to forsake the good work you've already put into it..... Also do it in your own words, nothing more romantic then seeing your own lovers style, nothing....