im under the age of 16 and think im am pregnant how should i tell my grandma help please!?

Question

can u help me in under 16 but over 13 and i think im pregnant i want to tell my grandma and i want to HIM but im scared of whats going to happen can u guys help me please

Answer 1

Ask your grandma for her help. There is no need for worrying about what might be—what it is is, and your grandma has much more experience to help you..

Answer 2

Well, I think that you shouldn't have had sex in the first place because your way too young. Right now, you should be taking a pregnancy test to make sure your right, because if you didn't take one and you thought you were pregnant, your worrying about nothing. I suggest you buy more than one pregnancy tester. Use a condom next time!

Right now, just calm down because it's not all your fault you got/could be pregnant. Don't be afraid to tell your grandma because i doubt that she wouldn't do anything that would make her love you less, and If your boyfriend was a boyfriend that loves you, then he'll take credit for his new born. Talk to your grandma or anyone else in your family first before you tell your boyfriend. I know that this is a stressful time, and i know that your getting different mood's and just let it rest and don't do anything that would or could hurt the baby. If your going to get a abortion, then it's going to be a lot of work. Yes - your grandma will get mad, but i think that the first thing she'll do is take care of you and the baby before she gives you your punishment.

Mistakes happen, but this one is pretty big mistake.
I hope you learned your lesson not to have sex at such a young age even if you feel like it's time - it's not, you have to learn about responsibility and how to keep yourself safe.
Drink lots of water and take it easy.

I hope you'll be alright.

Answer 3

Buy an pregnancy test, sold over counter at any major pharmacy store. Follow the directions and take the test. If it DOES show you're pregnant, you have no recourse but to tell your grandmother (who i assume is your legal guardian) the matter she'll eventually know of. Tell her first, then boyfriend (prepare for boyfriend to RUN). This sounds like the world's end---but it IS NOT the end of anything that can't be taken care of correctly.

Abortion is an option you'll have to live with the rest of your life--and one I doubt you can deal with. So that's out.

Adoption is another option that may be equally hard to deal with---but at least you'll know the baby is being raised by a carefully screened family who will give him or her the best life possible; one you and the child's father surely can't do together.

Then again, the pregnancy test may show you're NOT pregnant; so who has to know if you're not???

Answer 4

Why are you beating around the bush about your age? "Under 16, but over 13."

Stop being a wussy and tell someone so you can go get an abortion before it's too late.

Next time you have sex, use a condom. If you have unprotected sex, there is a pill called the Plan B Pill(Morning After Pill), it will keep you from fertilizing. You can get this pill at your local drug store. (It's not an abortion pill, it just keeps you from fertilizing after unprotected sex).

The abortion pill is called the RU486. You can take the RU486 abortion pill up to 7 weeks of pregnancy. Go to your doctor and ask for one, please. Because you are not mature enough to be a mother.

You should take better care of yourself and stop having unprotected sex.

One Trojan condom can save your life from an STD, and save your body from becoming pregnant when you are clearly too young to be a mommy.

Cheers

Answer 5

in this case as the old saying goes honesty is the best policy them everything cause you are gonna need there support and if you are think long and hard about the pros and cons of abortion which im completely 100% against cause there is a 13 year old that is raising twins and still making honor roll in school i know you can no i dont think it is right to have a baby at your age but its worse to have an abortion at any age but if you dont want the child there is always adoption and if you want to keep the child that is even better but you will be in my prayers and if the guy dont stick around that is his fault it takes two to make a baby

Answer 6

I'm so sorry but just sit down and talk with your grandma and tell her I understand that your scared but dont not tell her sit down tonight and open up its going to all be OK
No more having sex after this please hope this was a wake up call to you and your family.
I hope you understand you do have options and its not a bad thing when your this young you need to think of whats best for you at this point and it might be NOT having this baby.
Take care and go take with your family they love you

Answer 7

are you sure u want to have a baby right now? is this something you can handle? a life? if you can't even handle telling your grandma how are u going to handle way bigger & more complicated issues? if you are going to do this you need to woman up right now. you have to be brave and grown up real quick. i hope HE is not the type of guy that is going to break your heart. hopefully he stands by u no matter what your decision is. you should definately talk to your grandma soon. she is older and wiser and will be able to help you with the next steps. good luck

Answer 8

It is good that you want to talk to your grandma. Please do. It will be hard, but it is very important that you get help. Every pregnant woman deserves to have someone by her side to help her through this. One thing that you must do is to take care of yourself in the meantime. It is important that you get lots of rest and eat healthy foods. I am not trying to assume what you will decide to do, but if you are in a position to keep the baby, or give the baby up for adoption, then it is very important for you to start taking care of yourself right away. One of the ways to take care of yourself is to go to a doctor or midwife. Your grandma can help you with this. I would say - go to your grandma first. She is your grandma and will always love you. If it is hard for you, maybe you could write her a letter, telling her you want to discuss something very important with her, but that it is going to be hard to talk to her. This will give her a head's up, and will maybe not surprise her as much.
Good luck!!!

Answer 9

You're lucky enough to have at least a grandma to tell your problems.Your young and you didn't have the slightest idea what you got yourself into.You must try to be brave enough to face the consequences of what you"ve done.And by doing so, people will see the other side of you (the tough one) after all tough times never last but tough people do,right?If you need someone to talk more about your problem you have my ears I'll try to listen to you....You can have me as your contact thru yahoo answeres.Godspeed!!!!

Answer 10

HIM?

Oh dear. Well the sooner you tell her the sooner you can start receiving pre-natal care. It will be very hard but it must be done. Have her sit down and just let it out. There is no really gentle way to let the cat out of the bag, as it were.


But first, take a test. No sense in scaring her if you aren't really pregnant. =)

Answer 11

Take a pregnancy test before you tell anyone...have your friend go with you or just run to the store and take it at home quick...throw it away in a trash outside your house. If you are then tell your grandma first...she will know what to do...